How Aquarius Men Behave When They Fall In Love

Learn the personality traits and signs of an Aquarius man when he falls in love.

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An Aquarius man in love is more interested in intellect than appearance. And if you are playing hard to get with this fixed Air sign, you have got him completely, don’t. Oh, and seduction does not work on Aquarius. But do not be disappointed because we are here to help.

You have to put a lot of effort to get attention from an Aquarius man. Looking at the horoscope, one can say that they are brilliant, determined, and have great self-control. According to astrology, they like to live life on their own terms and are not afraid to be alone. So, if seduction is your game, you may want to rediscover it to fit the tastes of this self-sufficient individual. Also, if this man has feelings for you, he won’t shy away from making it loud and clear.

So, if you are smitten by an individual born under this Air sign and have a hard time catching his attention, this article will help you navigate the situation in your favor. Swipe up to know more.

How To Make An Aquarius Man Fall In Love

How to make an aquarius man fall in love
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1. Make Yourself Stand Out

Drawing attention to your peculiarities will pique an Aquarian man’s interest. Remember to smile, have fun, and be unique enough to be fascinating while doing all of this. It is important to remember that being quirky is more than simply a fashion statement. So, pay attention to your characteristics and discover methods to make them stand out, even if you have been hesitant to do so in the past.

2. Stimulate Him Intellectually

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Aquarians are curious to know more about individuals and their opinions. So, allow them to explore your thoughts and introspect on their feelings. When it comes to compatibility, a high IQ is not required, but you must have multidisciplinary knowledge to succeed in this field. Don’t simply listen; engage in the conversation. Don’t be afraid to voice your views and ideas, no matter how outlandish you may think them to be at first. Enjoy the discussion, but be prepared for some criticism as well.

3. Don’t Push Yourself Too Much

You have your life, and I have mine — this is one of the most persistent themes of an Aquarian man’s life. However, it doesn’t stop him from wanting to hear about every element of your existence. Be yourself and demonstrate the various facets of your personality; the more unique your characteristics, the better. Tell him you are interested in him without beating around the bush. Then, take a step back and allow him plenty of space and time to get to know you and your family.

4. Be His Friend

Aquarian men like to keep things friendly and impersonal. As a result, commitment can be a challenge and it is essential that you first establish yourself as his buddy and then think of developing the bond further. He’s outgoing and gregarious, and he enjoys meeting and mingling with new people. So it is best to have a mutual understanding of your likes and dislikes.

Building trust and loyalty requires patience, compromise, and sacrifice from both partners. So if you play your cards well, it shouldn’t be too tough to catch the eye of an Aquarius man. Head to the next section to know the subtle ways in which they express their adoration for you.

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Harry Styles, Ed Helms, Justin Timberlake, Christian Bale, Chris Rock, and John Travolta are among the popular celebs who are Aquarians.

8 Signs That An Aquarius Man Is In Love

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1. He Stops Flirting With Others

When he falls in love, the Aquarius man stops flirting with other prospective partners and concentrates on his relationship with the woman of his dreams. He wants to be with the person he loves, and he no longer considers flirting a pleasant pastime.

2. He Flirts With You In A Kind Way

Although the Aquarius man has ceased flirting with other people, he will still be interested in flirting with you. He loves the art of teasing and the way it arouses his sexual desire. Therefore, make sure you are adept at flirting so that you may take advantage of all his attention.

3. He Gives You More Attention

When an Aquarius guy starts to fall in love with you, you will notice that he begins to pay more attention to you. He will be attentive to everything you say and interested in learning more about you.

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The air sign may seem uncertain of his feeling initially. However, once he gets to know you, he will be enthusiastic and will be up for anything you may want to do.

4. He Wants To Know What You Think

According to Aquarius’ horoscope, he is insatiably curious and wants to know what you have to say. He probably didn’t ask too many questions earlier, but now that he has fallen for you, he will consult with you before making any decisions and respect your feedback.

5. He Openly Demonstrates Affection For You

An Aquarius guy will begin to showcase how much he values your friendship. His thoughtfulness may even extend to cooking a romantic meal for you, taking out your garbage, and offering to walk your dog! He will do his best to anticipate your desire. However, it is very important for them that you take note of this.

6. He Showers You With Love And Care

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In addition to his gestures of care, an Aquarius guy in love will illustrate his devotion by showering you with kisses and hugging you. When in public, such touches are limited to a short pat on your arm or a gentle hand on the small of your back as you go down the street as they are uncomfortable expressing emotions in public.

7. He Shares Titbits About Himself

When Aquarians fall in love, they tend to disclose and expose more aspects of their personality to their partners. They long to establish a connection with the lover and be understood by them.

8. He Makes Plans To Go On Adventures With You

An Aquarian man in love wishes to share his happiness and go on travels and explorations with his beloved. It may be anything — a trip to an antique store, a meal at a beautiful hilltop restaurant, or a weekend getaway to a tropical destination.

Aquarian men tend to flinch away if they feel the partner is either too invested or too cold towards them. So, while they let you in on their deepest secrets, you should work to keep that air of mystery around you. Read more on how not to lose an Aquarius guy in the following section.

Why Do Aquarius Men Withdraw In Love?

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1. Find No Emotional Response From Partner

An Aquarius guy can grow distant if he does not receive the emotional intimacy he needs from his mate. It is a two-way street for him, and he wants his partner to take the initiative, too. He doesn’t want to be the one who does all the heavy-lifting in the relationship.

If his love is not reciprocated in equal measure, he will return to the subconscious mode of being emotionally cold as he is a frigid zodiac sign by nature. He may have the impression that he is no longer required to satisfy you. Keep in mind that there is an automatic gear when you are in a relationship with an Aquarian. If you want an Aquarian guy to fall in love with you, you must make the first move.

2. Feel A Lack Of Intimacy

If there is a lack of closeness from the partner’s end, the Aquarius guy may also grow distant from the relationship. While he may seem emotionless, he also desires some personal time with his significant other.

When the partner does not express any interest in intimacy, the Aquarius man will believe that he is not wanted. Lack of romance causes him to return to his most fundamental state of being chilly and aloof.

3. Desire ‘Me’ Time

Aquarius men are known for being inward-looking. They are more concerned with their internal ideas and emotions than they are with outward stimuli. They require some time to relax and recharge after being emotionally exhausted with the constant interactions.

He believes in the adage that the absence of a person makes the heart grow fonder. So, while he may be head over heels in love with you, he will want some alone time. The desire to be alone does not imply that he wants to terminate the relationship. Instead, he just wants some breathing room and time to unwind and relax. If he does not get enough time alone with himself, his tension will grow, increasing his irritation or even driving him away from the relationship.

4. Are Overwhelmed By The Affection

A partner’s desire to spend excessive time with them makes Aquarius men uncomfortable. They will feel overburdened if you can’t stop sending text messages, calling them up, or giving them gifts.

Aquarius men have some intellectual inclinations and do not appreciate their partners being too affectionate all the time. They have a strong desire to learn new things and are great at communication as they can talk about their thoughts and goals to others. While they like being in a relationship, they are not too fond of the emotional elements of a relationship. They will get upset if they receive too much attention and love.

However, it does not imply that either of you should smother your emotions of love. On the contrary, he may take pleasure in some demonstration of adoration.

An Aquarius man’s silent treatment is usually not a result of a lack of affection. If you demonstrate an excessive amount of connection to someone else, they might even feel jealous. On the other hand, demonstrating excessive neediness is enough to cause him to become abruptly distant. For example, if you begin to be too loving, he will automatically draw away. The reason behind this behavior could be that he believes he will lose his independence if he devotes himself to you.

Infographic: How To Make An Aquarius Man’s Day

Intelligent and strong, an Aquarius man is a keeper without a doubt. And if you have been able to sweep him off his feet, well, congratulations! But don’t you stop at just that. If this man is in love with you, he deserves to be spoiled, too, since he makes an excellent partner, doesn’t he? With that thought in mind, we have curated some ideas for you in the infographic below that should strengthen your bond and keep you two closer. So, without further ado, scroll down and check them out.

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An Aquarius man in love is someone who appreciates their partner being on the same page as them. They love doing things their way and prefer a partner who would adapt to their lifestyle. Being around people who are diametric opposites makes them uncomfortable. They can make exceptions if they are in the mood for experimenting with new things. Otherwise, they usually have a well-defined comfort system where they welcome like-minded individuals with open arms. So, if you and your Aquarian man have many things in common, you will likely make a compatible pair.

Frequently Asked Questions

What drives an Aquarius man crazy?

Prioritizing yourself, intellectual conversations, and spontaneity can drive an Aquarius man crazy.

Are Aquarius males liars?

Yes, they are good liars, but they do not lie often. They prefer not to tell the whole story, keeping dubious facts for themselves. But they do not tell complete lies.

What makes an Aquarius man obsessed?

To make an Aquarius man obsessed with you, you should be independent, creative, and a person with passion. Be smart and witty to participate with him in intellectual conversations.

Do Aquarius men fall hard in love?

It is very rare for Aquarius men to fall deeply in love. However, if he does, he will be the most trustworthy partner. But, he can also get overwhelmed by your affection and fall out of love.

Key Takeaways

  • You have to put a lot of effort to get attention from an Aquarius man.
  • But when he falls in love, the Aquarius man stops flirting with other prospective partners and concentrates on his relationship with the woman of his dreams.
  • Make sure that you and the Aquarius you are dating or wish to date have a lot of things in common to keep them interested in you.
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Anastasia has been practicing astrology for over five years. She has completed numerous courses and undergone extensive training, especially in areas of prediction, natal astrology, astronomy, astromineralogy, and philosophy. For her, astrology is more than work—it’s her passion and vocation. She has a bachelor's degree in engineering, which helps her approach astrology rationally, analyze and structure information, and create full bio

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