30 Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Written by Harini Natarajan , Certified Emotional Intelligence Practitioner

Is your boyfriend glued to his phone all the time? Have you run out of topics to talk about? Whether it is newfound love or an age-old relationship, you need to find ways to spice up things and rekindle the spark. Playing fun games with your boyfriend is an excellent way to get closer to him and add zest to your relationship. Apart from killing boredom, these games can be intellectually stimulating and help you connect with your partner at a deeper level. They act as great stress busters and help you unwind after a long week. In this article, we have listed the 30 best fun games to play with your boyfriend. Take a peek!

Question Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Question Games To Play With Your Boyfriend


Here are some thought-provoking questions that you can ask your boyfriend to understand him better.

1. Who Was Your First Crush And What Did It Feel Like?

You can use this question as an icebreaker. It will give you an insight into what your boyfriend was like during his college or school days. It will also induce a nostalgic feeling of comfort to begin the game.

2. What Do You Find Attractive In Me?

You started off by delving into his past. Now, it’s time to drive the focus onto you. This will make you realize your attributes and qualities that he is attracted to – an amazing way to boost self-confidence.

3. What’s Your Idea Of A Perfect Date?

Try to figure out what your boyfriend’s idea of a perfect date is. Is it a long walk on the beach, a romantic dinner, or a movie? May be a night on a mountain or a bike ride would be ideal for him. This question will also help you plan the perfect date in the future, say, for his birthday or on your anniversary.

4. What’s Your Favorite Part Of Our Relationship?

When it comes to reflecting on your relationship, you may realize the best thing about being in love is the trust and togetherness. These aspects bind you both together. You can also find out why this relationship is special for him.

5. Do You Get Jealous When I Spend Time With A Male Friend?

A touchy question that almost brushes his ego, but it is always good to know whether he trusts you or not. If the answer is yes, you can become a little sensitive to his insecurity. Also, keep in mind to work towards getting over his negative feelings.

6. Where Would You Like To Go On A Holiday?

Everybody needs a vacation (periodically!), and there’s nothing like it if you and your boyfriend share similar ideas about a holiday. If it turns out that you both are beach bums, plan a holiday (a surprise, perhaps?) on the coasts.

7. If There Was One Super Power You Could Have, What Would That Be?

It is always fun to include some goofy questions in the routine – you will get to know his quirky, childish side.

8. Do You Have Any Fantasies That You Haven’t Shared With Me Yet?

This intimate question will turn the heat on. Shift the game to your bedroom whenever you feel the time is right. You can dig deep into your boyfriend’s desires and try to recreate them in a fun and flirty way to impress him.

9. Do You See Us Getting Married In The Future?

It is a hasty question to ask, and if you sense any discomfort or anxiety from pressure, lighten up the mood or move to the next question. It’s your call if you would like to date a person who has no interest in marrying you. Do not react badly to a “no” even if it disappoints you.

10. Name One Thing That You Can Never Give Up

Even the most altruistic of men have habits or possessions they wouldn’t sacrifice. Therefore, it is always good to know what is dear to him.

That was a fun questions game session. Sometimes, you need to loosen up and let go of inhibitions while you play these games. Drinking games can help you relax a little more and cheer up the environment. You can incorporate some shots into any of these traditional games and convert them into a drinking game.

10 Drinking Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

10 Drinking Games To Play With Your Boyfriend


1. Never Have I Ever

The player admits to doing something or says – ‘Never have I ever.’ It could be hiking or skinny dipping or something even more embarrassing. If it is something he has done, he will have to take a shot.

2. Drunken Artists

The drunken artist is a ‘booze’ version of Pictionary. You and your boyfriend will take turns being the guesser and the artist. The artist will draw a picture, and the other party has to guess what they think the picture is supposed to be. The artist has to take a drink for every 20 seconds before the other can figure out what they were drawing.

3. Straight Face

You have to write down jokes, inappropriate phrases, and funny riddles, while the other person must try to not laugh or giggle while reading them. Whoever laughs or fails to keep a straight face has to down a drink.

4. Rock, Paper, Scissors

Add a twist to this conventional game – whoever loses will take a sip. This drinking experience will blur your senses until a point where you get everything wrong.

5. Charades

While this game is perfect for teams, you can make an exception here and include intimate details in the puzzle while enacting for each other. It can be naughty phrases or nicknames you use or even your favorite song, movie, or actor. The one you guess it wrong have to take a sip of their drink. On the other hand, if you get it right, your partner has to take a sip.

6. Twister

Yes, you heard it right. This game is for adults too! It makes you bend, stretch, and come up with postures you have never been in for ages. Each time you fail to get the right posture, take a sip. And you will realize that it gets only harder! Make sure you don’t end up with a neck twist or a sprain.

7. Striptease Dice

Let’s get steamy here. Roll the dice. For an even number, you have to take a shot. For an odd number, you take off a piece of clothing.

8. Flip, Sip, Strip

Flip a coin and ask your boyfriend to guess the side. If he guesses it wrong the first time, he has to take a sip, and the second time, he has to remove a piece of clothing.

9. Ask Me Anything

Ask your boyfriend any simple or detailed question about yourself. If he gets it right, you take a sip, and if he gets it wrong, he takes a sip of his drink.

10. Snakes And Ladders

We have played this game since we were young. Time to add a sexy twist! Up the ladder calls for a shot, down the snake means you have to remove a piece of clothing.

Now that you have loosened up and relaxed a bit, let’s throw in some truth or dare questions. Include as many personal and intimate questions as possible for the truths, and go for quirky tasks for the dare part. Here are some tough truth questions followed by tougher dare tasks that you can spring at your boyfriend.

Truth Or Dare Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Truth Or Dare Games To Play With Your Boyfriend


1. Truth: What Is The Worst Gift You Have Ever Received From Me?

This is a smart question that will probably get him into trouble if he answers and knows that! So, he will probably opt for the dare option.

2. Dare: Give Me A Foot Massage

This is a convenient dare task. So, put your feet up, and enjoy the massage!

3. Truth: Who Was Your First Kiss?

This is the perfect time to dig up skeletons from the past. It will also soften up your boyfriend with nostalgic feelings and give you an idea about what he was like in the past.

4. Dare: Do 25 Push-ups

It sounds more like a punishment for the first kiss, but it is just a physical task that gives him a chance to look hot and for you to drool over.

5. Truth: What’s The Most Embarrassing Moment In Your Life?

Let’s hear it out and see if it’s more embarrassing than yours. Now that you have come this far, he should be comfortable sharing anything with you.

6. Dare: Walk Naked Around The House

You are calling for more embarrassing moments for him, but this should set the mood right and start turning the heat up a bit.

7. Truth: Are You Closer To Your Best Friend Or Me?

The answer can be hurtful if he picks his friend. Make sure you don’t react to it and move on to the next question.

8. Dare: Perform A Pole Dance For Me

This is the ultimate sexy dare task and will definitely move things in the right direction.

9. Truth: Would You Like To Marry Me?

This catch 22 question can lead to a hasty response. A ‘no’ would be disappointing, and a ‘yes’ cannot be an impulsive answer.

10. Dare: Cook A Great Meal For Me

This task is a little demanding, but a man who can cook well has a direct entry into your heart. Join him in this act – pour yourselves some wine and enjoy the meal together.

That was our list of fun games to keep you and your boyfriend engrossed in each other and bring you both closer. The whole idea is to spend quality time with each other and ignite the spark in the relationship. If you are in no mood to do so much preparation, you can always resort to board games like Scrabble and Boggle with interesting twists.

You can include prizes for the winner, like picking the next date avenue or breakfast in bed, to make it more appealing. Don’t let monotony and busy schedules get in the way of your love life. Make some time for your loved one, indulge in this exercise of fun and games, and transform it into a steamy, hot date.

Expert’s Answers For Readers’ Questions

What games can you play with your boyfriend over the phone?

If you have a long-distance relationship, you can play some popular games like Truth Or Dare, Never Have I Ever, and 20 Questions.

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