12 Brilliant Tips To Enjoy Your Time Alone

Written by Harini Natarajan

Almost everyone comes across a period in life when they have to be alone. While some derive a lot of joy in spending time away from everyone, it can be an emotional struggle for others. If you have a tough time being happy or productive when alone, don’t lose heart. There are ways to build a happy relationship with yourself and enjoy your ‘me’ time. In this article, you will discover some proven ways to be content in your own company rather than feeling lonely and miserable. Keep scrolling!

Being Alone Vs. Being Lonely

You can be alone when no one else is near you or when you are walking through a crowd but unaccompanied. So, being alone means being by yourself. It is a physical reality. However, being lonely is a state of mind where you feel friendless or loveless. You can be around friends and family and yet feel disconnected and isolated.

While you can be happy alone and feel content spending time with yourself, loneliness makes you wish to connect with someone. It is a distressing emotional response to your circumstances. So, you can live a solitary life and not feel lonely, and also live a seemingly rich social life and yet feel lonely.

Now that you have an idea of what it means to be alone and be lonely, let us explore a few ways through which you can learn to be happy alone.

12 Ways To Be Happy Alone And Live A Full Life

Humans are social beings who love to stay connected and interact with each other. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t thrive and be happy by yourself if the need arises. Here are some ways to help you discover how to enjoy and be productive in your alone time:

1. Enjoy Your Own Company

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To be able to enjoy your own company, go on a self-date. Do the things that you would do on a date with a partner. For instance, treat yourself to a solo movie and dinner date.

If it seems too much to begin with, start by visiting a café and sitting down alone with a cup of coffee. Enjoy your coffee while observing your surroundings. Get used to the feel of doing things alone.

2. Develop A Relationship With Yourself

Being alone gives you the time to develop a relationship with yourself. You get ample time to consider your needs, ambitions, and desires. Nurture all these things.

Start by not criticizing yourself when you do not live up to your expectations. Reflect on whether the things you seek in life are the ones that can bring you true happiness. Compliment yourself every day for little things like making a cup of tasty coffee or cleaning your house.

3. Be Self-Driven

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Does your daily routine make you jump out of bed every morning with enthusiasm? What is it that can make you look forward to your day with excitement?

You need to make a list of the things that can stimulate you to grow and evolve. If you love playing a musical instrument, baking cakes, or riding a bike, incorporate them into your daily routine and make a fresh start. This way, you will feel refreshed doing something every day that you love to do. Also, you will be happier spending time with yourself as you learn to live alone.

4. Keep Your Body And Mind Fit

Regular exercise offers many benefits for your mind and body. The chemicals that your body releases during exercise can enhance your mood and make you feel less stressed and more relaxed. At the same time, you feel more energized to go about your daily life. Ensure that working out must not feel like a chore to you. Figure out a routine that includes jogging, exercise, and walking to remain committed to a healthy lifestyle.

5. Pamper Yourself With Self-Love

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More often than not, people run after perfection. But sometimes, it can put you under a lot of stress. In such times, you need to remember it is alright to be less than perfect.

Be kind to yourself even if you fail. Once you stop trying to control everything and start practicing self-love, you will be more satisfied with your life. It will, in turn, make you happy being by yourself.

6. Nurture Your Passion

Is there something you always wanted to do but never found the time or opportunity to pursue? Even if you have never had any passion, you can try doing things that aren’t part of your routine life.

It can be something as simple as trying out a new recipe, learning a new craft, or doing anything else that interests you. You can even volunteer at animal shelters or retirement facilities. Focusing on something new can enhance your confidence and teach you to be happy while being on your own.

7. Bid Goodbye To Comparisons

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Every life is different, and so are the struggles and achievements associated with them. Avoid comparing yourself to others. As you scroll through social media platforms, you may come across plenty of people who seem to have picture-perfect lives. Maybe it is just the pictures that are perfect and not their lives.

Even if their lives are perfect, it must not be a reason for you to feel any less about yourself or your life. Rather than feeling self-pity, work towards fulfilling your dreams and becoming a better version of yourself.

8. Live In The Present

Life is about living in the present. When you hold on to past mistakes, you continue to carry their burden into the present. Likewise, if you constantly worry about your future, you miss out on living in the present.

Go out and do the things that you have always thought about doing later. Cherish the little things that add joy to your life. For instance, take out time to appreciate the blooming flowers in your garden or treat yourself to your favorite ice cream once in a while. Be mindful of all that is happening around you and celebrate life through the big and small moments.

9. Cherish Your Network

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Getting used to being alone does not mean you have to give up on your relationships. Take out time to nurture them. If you cannot meet them physically, ring them up and talk to them. Be genuine in your interactions.

Small gestures, such as wishing them on their birthdays or congratulating them on their achievements, can help you strike a balance between being alone and staying connected.

10. Get Used to the Idea of Doing Nothing

When was the last time you allowed your mind to wander? Keep aside five minutes every day to free your mind from every thought and emotion. Sit down in a quiet place, away from all distractions, such as your phone, TV, internet, music, etc.

Close your eyes and allow your mind to drift away. See where it leads you. It may not be easy at first, but you will enjoy this exercise after a few days. It will make you comfortable with silence.

11. Enjoy The Beauty Of Nature

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Go out and start spending time in nature. Head out to a nearby park or green area and start walking. Allow your mind to soak in the smell, sights, and sounds of nature.

You will find the fragrance of flowers, the chirping of birds, and the beauty of plants and trees soothing. Soon, you will realize there is so much to observe and enjoy even when you are alone.

12. Be Grateful For What You Have

It is so easy to take the things you have for granted and run after what you don’t have. Rather than doing that, start practicing gratitude. Each day, take some time to reflect on the things you have in your life and be grateful for them. These can be anything — your family, job, house, car or pet. This act of gratitude will enhance your happiness and contentment.

The Takeaway

Learning to be alone and happy is not something that you can achieve overnight. But for it to happen, you need to set the ball rolling. The above strategies and tips can be the stepping stones to your happiness and contentment with yourself. Start by taking small steps to become comfortable with the idea of being on your own, and then proceed from there. Develop a relationship with yourself and cherish it – whether you are alone or in a crowd!

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As Chief Editor, Harini sets the tone and editorial direction for StyleCraze to deliver engaging, interesting, and authentic content revolving around women's health, wellness, and beauty. She has over 14 years of experience in content writing and editing for online media. She specializes in the areas of Beauty, Lifestyle, and Health & Wellness and is proficient in Medical Sciences (Biology, Human Anatomy and Physiology, and Biochemistry). Her background in Biomedical Engineering helps her decode and interpret the finer nuances of scientific research for her team. Harini is a certified bibliophile and a closet poet. She also loves dancing and traveling to offbeat destinations.