How To Manifest Love: A Step-By-Step Guide

The ultimate guide to mastering the art of manifesting love through thoughts and wishes

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Love is one of the greatest feelings that everyone wants to experience. However, finding true love can be challenging. You must know how to manifest love, irrespective of your past experiences. A lot of hype has surrounded manifestation over the years. But all you need is willpower with open-mindedness. It is the act of paying attention to your feelings for something in your life through your commitment and belief.

In this article, we have discussed what exactly manifestation is, how to get started with love manifestation practices, and a step-by-step guide on how to manifest love and intimacy. Scroll down for more information.

What Is Manifestation?

If you have read a few self-help books, you may have superficially come across the concept of manifestation.

Manifestation is essentially willing something so hard that the universe puts it together and rewards you with it. It involves the concurrence of your thoughts, beliefs, actions, and emotions to translate your deepest wishes into reality.

Essentially, this boils down to everything Rhonda Byrne and Paulo Coelho discussed in their books The Secret and The Alchemist, respectively. You may have also heard life coaches and thought leaders, including Deepak Chopra and Oprah, talk about this concept.

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Always focus on what you want, not what you are trying to avoid, because negative language can attract the wrong signals.

Now that you understand the concept of manifestation, let us move to the million-dollar question – is manifesting love possible?

Can You Manifest Love?

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What else does one need more than money or power? True love, of course.

While everything is purely anecdotal, the law of attraction states that manifesting love is possible. Not a lot changes whether you try to manifest love, romance, wealth, fame, or anything you truly desire. The only roadblocks could be your self-limiting thoughts, fears or inhibitions, or your commitment phobic behavior.

Manifesting true love and passion is possible when you send your thoughts and wishes into the universe. You will discover in the later sections how to manifest love the right way. Once you master this art, you will find a vibrational match in response who will walk into your life and transform it in the most beautiful ways possible.

Most importantly, you can avoid seeking a new partner while trying to manifest love. You can make your existing partnership healthier and more loving through the power of manifestation and communication. Manifestation is all about setting an intention and working towards it.

While you can try manifesting love and affection with a specific person, you may not necessarily derive the results you desire. You cannot use manifestation to make someone love you back. Love manifestation differs from casting a love potion where you can magically make someone fall for you.

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Visualization is a powerful weapon or way to manifest what you want. So imagine what it would be like to be with the person you like.

How To Get Started With Love Manifestation Practices

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You must take care of a few prerequisites before starting your love manifestation journey. These include:

  • Create a list of everything that you wish to manifest. Writing forms an integral part of all the steps that we will be discussing in the following sections.

Mia, a blogger, talks about manifestation. She emphasizes “Step One of Manifestation is to carefully think about what you want in as much detail as possible (i).”

  • Decide what you need and stay specific about it. Asking for several things simultaneously will only send mixed signals to the universe.
  • Stay honest with yourself during the love manifestation process. There is no point in being untrue to yourself.
  • Understand your part in the process and create a roadmap of the actions you have to perform.
  • Discarding all resistance and skepticism you may encounter, as manifestation requires rock-solid belief.

Let us now dive into a step-by-step guide on manifesting love. Head over to the next section.

A Step-By-Step Guide On How To Manifest Love

After you have taken care of the “getting started” part, it is time to kick-start this spiritual and life-altering journey of manifestation. The following is a detailed guide on how to manifest love in your life:

Step 1: Actualize Your Feelings

The first step to manifesting true love is acknowledging your feelings. Here, we mean the feelings before and after the manifestation. Focus on your thoughts, emotions and desire to think about what you would feel. What is it that you are currently missing? How will it change when your manifestation makes an appearance in your life?

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Essentially, you need to discover the “missing piece” that will feel complete once you find your lover. This feeling could be loneliness or the want of companionship. You may also wish to counter the feeling of being unattractive or undesirable. Analyze your feelings and understand how manifesting love in your life will change it for the better. Eventually, love is all about feelings and compatibility. Hence, prioritize them over everything.

Step 2: Visualize Your Perfect Partner

Once you have listed down your feelings, it is time to visualize your perfect partner. There is no harm or shame in focusing on the physical attributes at this stage, considering you have already detailed the emotional aspect in the previous phase.

However, rather than focusing on looks, think about the qualities of your partner. For instance, if you want someone thin or strongly built, stress more on their features surrounding health, fitness, vitality, and athleticism.

Similarly, you may want someone wealthy. But rather than conjuring up some net worth right off the top of your head, think of what makes your partner wealthy (their financial discipline) or why you want them to be wealthy in the first place (for the sense of financial security that they may offer).

As a rule of thumb, focus on why you want the particular characteristics rather than being sold on the specifications themselves.

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Step 3: Embody Your Role

While you manifest love with a specific person, this other person may also be doing the same. We all want the best, but are we ready to put in the effort to be the best?

For the vibrational matches to hit it off, you need to be someone who complements your ideal partner. In simpler words, you must become the person you want to attract. Nurture these desirable traits in yourself to attract love – after all, you get the love you deserve.

And while you are at it, spend some time practicing self-care. Connect with your inner self while manifesting love to cultivate hobbies, habits, and practices that will strengthen your relationship as it grows and matures.

Step 4: Let The Universe Know

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After nailing down the part where you must work with imagination, it is time to put your intentions out in the real world to develop the connection.

The best way to do that is by committing to paper. Write down all your hopes, aspirations, goals, and dreams that you want from the relationship to make them real in this universe. Lately, the 3-6-9 method has become popular. Here, you write your intentions three times every morning, six times in the afternoon, and nine times at night for about 33 to 45 days. Most people own a manifesting love notebook to record their journey and experiences, while others may write a letter to their future selves.

Alternatively, you can meditate, pray, speak out your intentions, or make a vision board. Ultimately, regardless of your chosen method, it has to capture everything you want and exactly how you want it.

Step 5: Align Your Actions

After you let your desires loose, it is time to work towards them. Love manifestation is not a magic spell, but a collaborative action between you and the universe. So, naturally, you have to hold your end of the deal and work towards realizing your wish to find true love.

Once you start manifesting true love, you need to put yourself out there to make it easier for your partner to find you. Once this person presents themselves, do not be shy or hold back in pursuing them if they show interest in you. Feel unabashed to ask that special someone on a coffee date and make the first move while asking for their number. You will have signs pushing you in the right direction, so take the lead and play your role.

Step 6: Trust The Process

The penultimate step in this journey of manifesting love into your life is probably the hardest – trusting the process.

There will be times when it will take longer than imagined, or there will be instances when the one you come across may only check some of your boxes. At the same time, you may have a crisis of faith and start questioning your beliefs. All these can contribute to self-limiting behavior.

But rather than clinging to the idealized version of the timeline or the person, you need to surrender to whatever the universe has in store. Maintain confidence in the process and trust that the universe will not throw something at you that you cannot handle. After all, a part of the thrill in the journey is learning and growing with each other. Hence, do not expect cookie-cutter results.

Who knows – a few years from now you may discover that you and your soulmate are perfect for each other!

Step 7: Practice Gratitude

This is a climax to everything you have experienced and earned along your journey. Remember to stay grateful for the opportunity and extend thanks every step of the way.

This detailed guide helps you on how to manifest your love in your life. Let’s now find out how long it takes to manifest love in the next section.

How Long Does It Take To Manifest Love?

The journey that leads to love is different for every individual and accepting your own path can be just as fulfilling as reaching the goal. Similarly, each person has a very different way of manifesting love. Some may find it quickly, while others may take longer. It depends on a number of factors, including your attitude, preparedness, actions taken to make it happen, and your compatibility with partners. So there is no specific time period for when it will occur. Also, it is important to focus on personal development, being open to opportunities, and nurturing deep connections rather than solely aiming for a specific timeline.

Manifestation of true love is a beautiful process. Hence, stay mindful throughout and appreciate the little things. You also may maintain a gratitude journal to mark your journey of trust and devotion. It could be a sweet, touching, and thoughtful gift to share with your loved one. It will also keep you focused on your primary goal and eliminate distractions in your pursuit of love and commitment. Plus, even the universe deserves genuine thanks now and then.

Infographic: 7 Steps To Manifest Love In Your Life

Love is surely the most beautiful thing in the world but sadly it doesn’t come that easily. Cupid is not going to hit you and your ideal man with his bow! It is time to take matters into your own hands. Check out the infographic below and learn the seven basic steps to manifest love in your life and say goodbye to those lonely nights!

7 steps to manifest love in your life (infographic)

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It is quite possible to manifest love. All it takes is your honesty and an open mind. First, analyze your feelings and visualize how your partner should be, not just focusing on the physical attributes but also on their personality and character. Now that you have narrowed down your aspirations, dreams, and goals you desire from the relationship, write them down for about 33-45 days for a specified number of times during the morning, afternoon, and night to let the universe know about them. It is important to trust this process all the way through. Finally, don’t hold back when your desired person presents themselves before you.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you tell if someone is manifesting you?

Look for the following signs to know if someone is manifesting you:
• You may feel as though you know them
• You get a sense of déjà vu when they are around
• You always think about them
• You see them in your dreams

How do you know if your soulmate is manifesting you?

Below are some signs that may tell you that your soulmate is manifesting you:
• You feel like you have met them somewhere before.
• You stumble upon them often.
• You feel an intense urge to contact them.

How do I know if my manifest is working?

The following signs may help you know that your manifest is working:
• You are effortlessly optimistic.
• You see angel numbers often.
• You come across synchronicity.

Key Takeaways

  • Manifesting involves putting conscious energy into the universe to make something happen for you.
  • Finding true love will not be a problem for you if you know how to manifest love.
  • It is of utmost importance to be honest while you are in the process of love manifestation.
  • Trust the process and practice gratitude to lend more power to your manifestation.
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Sarah KenvilleMA (Marriage and Family Therapy)
Sarah Kenville has a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and a law degree. She has 8 years of experience and offers premarital counseling and relationship coaching to dating, engaged, newlywed, and same-sex couples.

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