Libra Man In Love: Ways To Win A Libra Man

You don't need words if you know how to read the signs that declare he's into you.

Reviewed by Anastasia Kirilchik, Astrologer
Written by Shivani Chandel, MA (English Literature), Certified Relationship Coach
Edited by Asmita De, MA (English)
Fact-checked by Sneha Tete, Integrated MA, Certified Relationship Coach  • 

A Libra man in love is often deemed a ‘hopeless romantic’. Gwen Stefani’s famous quote, “I’m a Libra, let’s balance the scales” sums up a Libran’s characteristic desire to maintain balance and stability. It is believed that these individuals are excellent negotiators and do not really look for flings. Serious commitment is their love language and are always looking out for enduring connections that are filled with romance and intimacy.  A Libra man is extremely honest and invested in a romantic relationship, though he may sometimes come off as indecisive. Various other questions like “How does a Libra man express his feelings while in love?” and “Does Libra man fall in love easily?” must be going through your mind at this moment. Worry not, because we are here to answer them all. In this article, we will analyze and help you to recognize a Libra man’s traits and behavior towards their love interest. So, sit back and scroll through for more information.

How To Make A Libra Man Fall In Love With You?

Until now, you must be quite convinced about the common traits of a Libra man in love. But the question arises- How do you make a Libra man fall in love with you? So, how about proceeding with some tips to make a Libra man want you and not let it end like a wild goose chase.

A woman engaging in conversation with a Libra man in love
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  •  Efforts: Make it a habit to put efforts for building a bond with a Libra man. Try to initiate and engage in conversations as well as flaunt your elegance and beauty. And he will appreciate it if you make a move in steering your boat to his harbor. After all, there is nothing he loves more than flirting and seduction.
  •  Keep It Real: If you are trying hard to appease him by ingratiating, you would surely get close to him for a while, but then you are going to make a hash out of your actions. A Libra man is an honest and tactful individual who hates ostentatious beings, so it’s all in your hands to stay upfront about your intentions as well as relationship values and priorities.
  •  Avoid Arguments And Gossips: Libra men tend to be erudite and possess a flamboyant personality. If you don’t want to be like a shag on a rock, then never indulge in arguments. A Libra man loathes the presence of a partner who likes to gossip. If you want to win his heart, you ought to know that he does not like talking about someone else’s life. They despise talking behind someone’s back. It’s better to steer away from engaging in tittle-tattle if you don’t want to lose him. Offering him peace is what he wants.
  •  Culturally Rooted: If you are someone who likes to embrace and celebrate culture, higher is the chance that you can already be the apple of his eye. A Libra man is an irreconcilably cultured individual who regards those who respect and act responsibly in preserving their culture while sustaining the same.
A woman listening intently to a Libra man in love
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  •  Be A Good Listener: Just as you can fathom them to be good listeners, try to be there for them too. They also need someone to talk to who would listen to their opinions as well as woes. And it does not hurt if you sprinkle in some affection and physical touch while listening to him.
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Libra men love fun and adventures. Open yourself up to new adventures with them. Go hiking, take a trip to a neighboring town, or go to the beach to watch the sunset.

Signs Of A Libra Man In Love With You

How To Know A Libra Man Is In Love? Well, as a matter of fact, it is true that it takes two to tango. Yet, the romantic gestures of this Libra man will substantiate his love towards you. And then you realize that the odds are getting stacked in your favor. Our foremost concern is regarding “how does a Libra man act when he’s in love.” Below, we have noted some “Libra man falling in love” signs.

A well-dressed man is a sign of a Libra man in love
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  •  Dress Up Well: Do Librans dress up well? Librans earn the acclamation of being fashionable and creative. Sophistication is a top priority to most Librans within this zodiac, be it a man or woman. Furthermore, when it comes to the dressing style of a Libra man who is, of course, in love, it can be discerned that they prefer staying well dressed around their partners and even adore those who have an appealing sense of dressing style as well as fashion, charm, and charisma.
  •  Equality And Respect: A Libra man believes in equality. When it comes to a partner he admires, he never fails to make her feel equal. If you are treated with immense respect and concern, you are in his good books. However, since he is known to be a keen observer, if you try to ingratiate, he will catch you while you initiate the first move. He will treat you with immense respect.
A Libra man smiling while his partner whispers something in his ears
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  •  Radiating Happiness While Being With You: If you are around him, his eyes and smile will blow the gaff about his fondness for you. You might not even realize how he spreads that happiness and positivity to you and all the people around him.
  •  Emotional Attachment: Whenever a Libra man seems interested in you, he craves emotional connection and even entrusts you with the same emotional intelligence. This expectation is simply wanting you to reciprocate. They are inclined to love you openly, and we can assure you to be in good hands if he is attentive and takes care of your emotions. And guess what! You get to be emotionally mature if you are lucky enough to connect with him. Falling in love with a Libra man is deemed a gift of fate.
A Libra man introducing his partner to his mother
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  •  Introduces You To His Family And Friends: Perhaps, this is an impressive trait which makes a Libra man stand out of the crowd. They readily value affection towards a partner as an investment in the future partnership. Their personality entails hope for permanent commitment and loyalty from their partner.
  •  He Will Become A Problem-solver: Get your hopes high on this because when you are unable to tackle a problem on your own, a Libra man falling in love with will try to offer a helping hand every time. Whether the problem is resolved or not, he will assure you that you are relaxed.
  •  Offers Affirmations: He will do his damnedest in charming and flattering his partner when this Libra man is in love. If he has an affinity for you, he will make sure to show his appreciation and admiration brazenly. This is, in a way, an affirmation that you are special to him.
  •  He Is Open To Suggestions: In entirety, a Libra man expects suggestions and advice from their partner, albeit he could be a good decision-maker on his own. You will notice him letting you be part of his important decisions.

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You can also look out for other signs that will tell you that a Libra man is in love. If he is a good listener and tries to sort out your problems, know that these are his ways of showing his love for you.

What Is Dating Libra Men Like?

Dating a Libra man is a whole experience! Prepare to be seen, wooed, and listened to. You are in for endless and meaningful conversations, romantic dates, and a big social circle. Libra men are known for their artistic sense, aesthetic preferences, and having an overall balanced perspective.

However, just like all other zodiac signs, libra men have their perks and quirks. While they plan a romantic date for you, it may take them hours to select the perfect restaurant, with the perfect menu, and the perfect interior. You get the drift, right? They are also big people-pleasers and a serious FOMO.

There are also other traits of libra men that may get on your nerves at times, such as their possessive behavior. Learn more about it in the next section.

Are Libra Men Jealous And Possessive In Love?

Although perceived as an endearing and keen observer, a Libra man is consciously committed to his lover. They are notoriously possessive when it comes to engaging in romantic relationships, which might remain concealed most of the time. They might look like they have a cold demeanor outwardly, but it’s not that. It’s just that they are good at concealing their jealousy. However, a sign that will assure you regarding his jealousy and possessiveness is your Libra man preparing to beat a hasty retreat into himself to find equanimity. He craves attention if he is genuinely interested in you and hence expects real commitment. Venus, the ruling planet of Libra, adds a laudable aspect to his love toward you: he does not fear compromising on anything to keep you happy if he considers you dearly. Hence, there is no further confusion on “Is my Libra man in love with me?” However, Libra men don’t like to have fights. If their home atmosphere is tense all the time, they can become introverted and abruptly break their relationship without explanation. Therefore, a healthy and peaceful home environment is a must for the best in a romantic Libra man to thrive.

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Popular singer and Libran Bruno Mars wrote his song “When I Was Your Man” for his girlfriend Jessica Caban as a way of showing his love for her.

Infographic: 8 Signs A Libra Man Is In Love With You

Libra is generally a sign that is charming and social and has great communication skills. And when they are in love, all that charming energy just shifts to that one person they are so interested in. If you are interested in a Libra man and want to know what his attention means, rest assured that he is interested. Librans do not believe in mixed signals. So, for your reference, we have made an infographic with all the telltale signs that a Libra man is in love with you. Check it out below.

8 signs a libra man is in love with you (infographic)

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What makes Libra men in love exceptional are their personality traits like patience and loyalty. Trust and honesty are of utmost importance to them. They are also loving, creative, open-minded, and generous. Librans create a secure environment for their partners and meet all your expectations with unconditional love. Moreover, it is easy to make out if a Libra man is in love with you. All you need to do is look for certain signs like dressing up well, treating you as his equal, beaming with happiness in your presence, playing the problem-solver, and more that will establish partnership and balance in the relationship. However, a Libra man cannot take any dishonesty and expects a sense of fairness and justice in the relationship. They never make an effort to get back into a chaotic relationship. So, if you have a Libran crush, go ahead and test your relationship compatibility. You would never regret a relationship with them.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take a Libra man to fall in love?

A Libra man takes his own time to fall in love. He takes time to get to know his potential partner, peeling back their layers. If the bond he shares with his partner is strong and healthy, he can fall in love easily. This explains Libra’s high compatibility with other zodiac signs.

What kind of woman do Libra men like?

Libra men are attracted to strong and intelligent women. They love women who can be themselves and are passionate about their work, life, and love.

How do Libras act when they have a crush?

Libras drop hints like staring at their crush and trying to make them feel comfortable. They will want to spend time with their crush and try to make them laugh.

Key Takeaways

  • Try being yourself and keep it real. Libra men enjoy and appreciate authenticity.
  • Avoid gossiping with them; it may come off as a negative personality trait.
  • Learn about your and their cultural roots, as libra men believe in celebrating culture.
  • If a libra man likes you, he will always dress well for you. He will often try his best to solve your problems and shower you with affirmations.


Do you have feelings for a Libra man and want to know whether the feeling is mutual? Click on the video to find out 21 clear signs that indicate he’s in love with you too!
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