121 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend That Will Help You Bond

From her favorite TV show to her wildest fantasy – learn everything about your girlfriend!

Reviewed by Mira MasukawaMira Masukawa, Licensed Marriage Family Therapist
By Harini NatarajanHarini Natarajan, Certified Emotional Intelligence Practitioner  • 

Your ability to strike new conversations every day with your girlfriend can help you take your relationship to the next level. So, it is better to know which questions to ask your girlfriend before you exhaust all your topics. After all, communication is the key to success in any relationship. In this article, we have listed some cute, funny, kinky, and personal questions that can get your partner always immersed in conversations with you. They serve as an icebreaker and let you explore more about your partner. Keep reading.

123 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend And Improve Your Relationship

Cute Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

1. How do you like to treat yourself?

The best questions to ask your girlfiend are about getting to know more about her

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2. Do you remember the first time we met each other?
3. What is your favorite childhood book?
4. What is your favorite playground game?
5. Who makes you really happy?
6. Do you enjoy spending time with children?
7. What is your favorite home-cooked food?
8. What wakes you up in the morning?
9. How do you take care of your health so well?
10. What is your favorite thing to do when it rains?
11. Do you usually daydream?
12. What is that one memory that you never want to forget?
13. How would you spend your last day living?
14. Which movie can you quote the most lines from?
15. What was your favorite toy when you were a kid?
16. What is your favorite childhood memory?
17. What makes you smile wholeheartedly?

Ask your girlfiend what makes her happy

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18. Which do you like better: receiving or giving gifts?
19. Has anyone ever thrown a surprise party for you?
20. What is that one thing you wish you had more time for?
21. Do you talk about me when you are with your friends?
22. Who do you call when you need any advice?
23. What is the best compliment you have ever received?
24. What is the meaning of life to you?
25. What makes you angry or sad?
26. What do you look forward to the most when you think about old age?
27. Who was the best teacher to you?
28. How do you like to spend your time?
29. At what point did you decide that you wanted us to be together?
30. What is your idea of having a perfect birthday?
31. Which do you like better: sunrise or sunset?
32. When in your life were you at your happiest self?
33. Do you enjoy being with my friends?
34. Have you ever slept with stuffed animals?
35. What is the oddest thing you have preserved for sentimental reasons?
36. Which was your favorite subject in school?
37. Have you ever innocently lied just for fun?

Some questions to ask your girlfriend should be about knowing her darker side

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38. Don’t you think our every moment together is invaluable?
39. Do you like serious guys over cute guys?
40. Have you ever lied to your friends?
41. What is your all-time favorite dish?
42. What is that one thing you can’t live without?

Funny Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

1. Do you like your name?
2. If you had a warning label, what would it be?
3. Which is that one place you will never visit?
4. What is the funniest thing you have ever overheard about yourself?
5. Do you ever laugh when you are all by yourself?
6. Would you like to go to the moon with me?
7. What is your guilty pleasure?
8. When was the last time you sent a letter or postcard to someone?
9. Have you ever lied to anyone about your age?
10. Which is the best place according to you to meet awesome people?
11. What would you prefer: beauty or brains? Don’t you think you have both?
12. What is that one thing you wish you knew more about?
13. What was the worst date you have ever been to?

Asking your girlfriend about her worst date can start a funny conversation

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14. What would you grab first if your house was on fire?
15. Do you like to cuddle?
16. Do you consider yourself free-spirited?
17. Would you ever attend your high school reunion?
18. Do you like dinosaurs?
19. Would you ever shout my name out?
20. What is something you wish you knew more about me?
21. Would you go a day without your phone or cash?
22. Would you ever go on any reality TV show?
23. How would you cheer out loud for me?
24. Don’t you think your being single was a blessing for me?
25. Which TV character do you wish was your best friend?
26. Do you watch cartoons?
27. Who is your all-time favorite cartoon character?
28. If you had to invent a cocktail, what would it be?
29. What remind you of me?
30. What is one thing you want to do before getting old?
31. Would you rather have a sports car, private jet, or yacht?
32. If you get stuck in the elevator and forced to listen to only one song, which one will you listen to?
33. Are you afraid of ghosts and spirits?
34. When was the last time you laughed so hard that you almost cried?
35. Would you ever want me to give you a piggyback ride?
36. What fitness craze or popular TV show do you not understand?
37. Who understands you the most?
38. What are some clever comebacks you have heard?
39. What is one similarity between you and me that you love?
40. Do I make you laugh?
41. Do you like spending time with me?
42. Do you think I take good care of you?

Quick Tip

It is recommended to be spontaneous and relaxed while asking your girlfriend funny questions. This enthusiastic delivery style works like a charm in continuing the conversation.

Dirty Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

1. What is your favorite thing to do in bed?
2. What do you think is your biggest turn-on?
3. What thing makes you feel sexy?
4. Do you have a fetish?
5. Do you like watching porn?
6. What is the craziest thing you have done in your bedroom?
7. Can you show me that mole on your thighs?
8. Have you ever been to a strip club?
9. Have you ever made a booty call?
10. Have you heard of erotica? What is the sexiest book you’ve ever read?
11. Do you think you have a sexy phone voice?

Dirty questions can get your girlfriend in a naughty mood

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12. Do you prefer to be the dominant one in bed?
13. What do you fantasize about the most?
14. What is one thing you want to do with me that we’ve never done before?
15. Do you like massages?
16. Where do you like to be massaged the most?
17. What is the sexiest quality according to you a partner can have?
18. What is the hottest thing a lover can say in bed?
19. Have you ever given a thought to make the first move for someone?
20. Would you like to bathe with me?
21. Have you ever been attracted to a woman? If so, have you ever acted upon it?
22. How guilty do you feel about a one-night stand?
23. Are there any of your bedroom secrets?
24. What’s that one thing which made you feel unexpectedly good in bed?
25. Do you like being hugged while you sleep?
26. Do you mind if I have a look at your Tinder profile?
27. What’s your favorite sort of foreplay?
28. Do you like being kissed on your neck?
29. Have you ever slept with more than one person in a single day?
30. What is the sexiest thing you can say to me right now?
31. What turns you on the most?
32. What do you think of “365 days”?
33. What’s the dirtiest dream you have ever had?
34. Can I kiss your lips all day long?
35. What sort of boyfriend do you want?
36. At what age did you have your first kiss?
37. Is there any of your hottest sexual memory?

Quick Tip

It is better to be aware of her mood and feelings before you ask any of the dirty questions. This helps set the right context.

These questions to ask your girlfriends will not only help you bond with them better but also make your dates enjoyable. Yes, doing adventurous things together, sharing good food, exploring new places, forming new hobbies, and indulging in other exciting date activities are also fun and essential. You get to learn a lot about each other through these activities. However, at times, you should take time to sit down with each other and ask these questions. They will give you a clear picture of your partner’s personality and deepen your bond.

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I chat about with my girlfriend?

You can chat about her interests, her family, her friends, common interests you both share, or any sweet memories of her childhood.

What question makes my girlfriend blush?

You can make your girl blush by posing questions like:
• How do you feel about me?
• What is your wildest fantasy?
• What is the one thing I do that gives you butterflies?

Key Takeaways

  • The ability to converse about new topics is key to taking your relationship with your girlfriend to the next.
  • You can ask her questions about what makes her angry and sad, her guilty pleasures, and massages among other things to break the ice.
  • To avoid your relationship from becoming boring and quiet, you can also ask her questions about what makes her laugh and preferences and fantasies in bed.

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