How To Know If She’s The One: 15 Clear Signs That Indicate It

If your heart already knows, here are a few signs to confirm your hypothesis.

Reviewed by Joy NwokoroJoy Nwokoro, Relationship Coach
By Harini NatarajanHarini Natarajan, Certified Emotional Intelligence Practitioner  • 

We are all looking for that special person who can fill our lives with happiness. But when you meet a girl and fall for her at first sight, you need to know if she really is the one. So how to know if she is the one? Note that the person made for you is someone you share the rest of your life with. Always remember this quote: “I just looked up from my cereal. And I said, ‘You know what I want to do today? I want to marry you.’”- Jim Halpert, The Office. This article explores 15 clear signs to know that she is the one for you. Continue reading.

15 Signs To Know That She Is The One For You

1. You Are Happy

If you are happy and you know it, clap your hands! When you think of her, you smile like a giddy fool. While your friends complain about their relationships, you can’t wait to get back to her. Everything about her just makes you smile – including the annoying things. She makes you so happy that you wouldn’t trade your relationship (and those arguments) for anything!

2. She Is Your Person

If you were to commit murder (accidently, of course!), she would be the one you would call to hide the body! And you know she will take this secret to her grave. She is the one you call when you have a problem or a bad day. She is the one you tell everything to.

3. She Loves You For Being You

She knows about your weird quirks and fetishes and still loves you. She doesn’t make you feel bad for who you are. She loves every part of you, including the messy bits – and vice versa.

Quick Tip
She’s the first person you want to share your stories with and she also is always excited to hear all your stories.

4. She Supports You

Remember the time you wanted to do something risky but couldn’t believe in yourself? But she believed in you! That’s part of why you love her. She always supports you through thick and thin. She never ridicules your opinions. You can tell her your deepest desires and ambitions and she will have your back. She might not see eye to eye on everything, but she respects that you have your own voice and opinions.

5. Your Friends And Family Love Her

If your friends and family love her, it is almost a signed deal. They get along with her really well and love her as their own.

However, sometimes friends and family might not appreciate your relationship – and that is alright. But we would want them, too! So it stands to reason that if we want them to love her and they do, something’s right.

6. She Is Always There For You

Woman taking care of man is a sign that she is the one

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Remember the time you fell sick and acted like a baby? She was there taking care of you and waiting on you hand and foot! She’s always there for you through the good, bad, and ugly.

7. You Both Learn From Your Fights

When you argue, rather than taking jabs to hurt each other, you both really discuss the issue to resolve it. That is a relationship worth holding on to forever. Your fights become learning experiences instead of a battleground.

8. You Imagine A Future With Her

Close your eyes and think about your future. Is she there with you when you get that dream job and buy that lake view house? If you’re already planning your future with her in mind, you already know that she is the one for you.

9. She Is Your Lobster

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There is no one else who makes you feel love the way she does. She angers you, pushes you to be better, drives you crazy, and supports you. You can look at a million other people, but none of them give you those sparks like she does. There isn’t another ‘her’ for you.

10. She Makes You A Better Person

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If you want to be a better person because of her, you know you are hooked. She makes you want to load the dishwasher the right way. She makes you want to do better in everything – because she believes you can and you don’t want to let her down. So you push yourself and make yourself better.

11. Saying Sorry Isn’t Hard

Woman apologising for her mistake is a sign that she is the one

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After a long fight, neither of you have a problem with saying sorry. You both know that fights and disagreements are all part of a relationship. And if you want it to work, you will have to apologize. Admitting defeat and saying sorry isn’t a problem because you know that the endgame is being together and not about who is right or wrong.

Quick Tip
A loving partner always recognizes, respects, and supports your choices irrespective of whatever differences you may have. They always make up and come to a compromise after every argument.

12. You Would Do Anything For Her

Don’t tell me it’s not worth fightin’ for
I can’t help it, there’s nothin’ I want more
You know it’s true
Everything I do I do it for you

Bryan Adams has it right! There is nothing you wouldn’t do for her because she would do the same for you. You both know how important your relationship is to each other. And you both will cross the seven seas and battle mythical gods to fight for it! There isn’t much you wouldn’t do for each other because you both are forever.

13. Putting Each Other First

Despite what you want, you always put her needs first and she does the same for you. A compromise doesn’t feel like you are giving up on something – you instead feel you are making her happy, and that feeling makes you happy too. Putting her needs first doesn’t seem like you are sacrificing anything – and you know she feels the same about you.

14. You Both Are Vulnerable

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You both share your deepest feelings, darkest secrets, and innermost fantasies with each other. You know there is no judgment with her. You are unabashedly yourself with her. You tell her that secret family history because she will be there for you. You open up to her with your sexual desires. No matter what, you can be open and vulnerable with her physically, emotionally, and mentally.

15. You Are Already Thinking Of A Lifetime

If you are already planning trips with her and going on other adventures, it means you want to build experiences that last a lifetime. It means you already know that she is the one for you.

Is She The One?

Books, movies, and songs will all have you believe that all we need in our lives is that one person – someone made specifically for us by the mystical gods above. But, in reality, the person who is made for you is someone you want to be with.

There may never be that soulmate made for you, but you will find a girl who moves you in all the right ways. You will fall in love and want to make it work with her. If she understands you, fights for you, loves you, protects you, and respects you, she clearly is the right one for you. She sure may annoy you at times, but she is the woman you love – and you want to spend the rest of your life with her.

Infographic: What To Do When She Is The One

Finding love may not be easy. But one thing is for sure – everyone deserves love. So, you will definitely find the ‘one.’ And when you do, remember always to treasure them.

To help you get started, we want you to check our infographic below and know what to do when you find the love of your life. So, go on!

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If you are wondering if she is the one, odds are you have already made up your mind and are hoping it to be true. You have most likely considered getting down on one knee and popping the question and have decided to spend the rest of your life with them. That is one of the signs: Being able to imagine a future with her. If she is a person who supports you, makes you feel happy, seen, and heard, the chances are that you have met the one for you. Trust your intuition and these signs that she is the one; there is no need to second-guess yourself.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to know if she is the one?

Anecdotal evidence suggests that it takes around six months or 172 days of dating someone before deciding if they are a good match for commitment.

How important is physical chemistry when deciding if she’s the one?

Physical attraction is important for creating a strong bond between partners. It adds excitement and intensity to a relationship. If you don’t feel any physical attraction towards your partner overtime you may seem less interested in them and the relationship may fizzle out.

Key Takeaways

  • If you are wondering if she is the one, you are probably already serious about her.
  • Everything about her makes you smile, and she supports you through every endeavor.
  • She is the one you tell everything to, and you can imagine a future with her.
  • She loves every part of you, even your flaws.
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