15 Signs She Is The One For You

Written by Harini Natarajan

“‘I just looked up from my cereal. And I said, ‘You know what I want to do today? I want to marry you.'”- Jim Halpert, The Office.

We are all looking for signs to know that the person we are with is the one for us. That the special someone we are seeing is going to be our lobster. Whether you believe in the one or not, we all want to end up with that special someone. But in a world where nothing is certain, how can you know if your lady is the one? We have compiled a list of signs that help determine if the woman you are with is the right one for you! Keep reading.

15 Signs To Know That She Is The One For You

1. You Are Happy

If you are happy and you know it, clap your hands! When you think of her, you smile like a giddy fool. While your friends complain about their relationships, you can’t wait to get back to her. Everything about her just makes you smile – including the annoying things. She makes you so happy that you wouldn’t trade your relationship (and those arguments) for anything!

2. She Is Your Person

If you were to commit murder (accidently, of course!), she would be the one you would call to hide the body! And you know she will take this secret to her grave. She is the one you call when you have a problem or a bad day. She is the one you tell everything to.

3. She Loves You For Being You

She knows about your weird quirks and fetishes and still loves you. She doesn’t make you feel bad for who you are. She loves every part of you, including the messy bits – and vice versa.

4. She Supports You

Remember the time you wanted to do something risky but couldn’t believe in yourself? But she believed in you! That’s part of why you love her. She always supports you through thick and thin. She never ridicules your opinions. You can tell her your deepest desires and ambitions and she will have your back. She might not see eye to eye on everything, but she respects that you have your own voice and opinions.

5. Your Friends And Family Love Her

If your friends and family love her, it is almost a signed deal. They get along with her really well and love her as their own.

However, sometimes friends and family might not appreciate your relationship – and that is alright. But we would want them, too! So it stands to reason that if we want them to love her and they do, something’s right.

6. She Is Always There For You

Remember the time you fell sick and acted like a baby? She was there taking care of you and waiting on you hand and foot! She’s always there for you through the good, bad, and ugly.

7. You Both Learn From Your Fights

When you argue, rather than taking jabs to hurt each other, you both really discuss the issue to resolve it. That is a relationship worth holding on to forever. Your fights become learning experiences instead of a battleground.

8. You Imagine A Future With Her

Close your eyes and think about your future. Is she there with you when you get that dream job and buy that lake view house? If you’re already planning your future with her in mind, you already know that she is the one for you.

9. She Is Your Lobster

There is no one else who makes you feel love the way she does. She angers you, pushes you to be better, drives you crazy, and supports you. You can look at a million other people, but none of them give you those sparks like she does. There isn’t another ‘her’ for you.

10. She Makes You A Better Person

If you want to be a better person because of her, you know you are hooked. She makes you want to load the dishwasher the right way. She makes you want to do better in everything – because she believes you can and you don’t want to let her down. So you push yourself and make yourself better.

11. Saying Sorry Isn’t Hard

After a long fight, neither of you have a problem with saying sorry. You both know that fights and disagreements are all part of a relationship. And if you want it to work, you will have to apologize. Admitting defeat and saying sorry isn’t a problem because you know that the endgame is being together and not about who is right or wrong.

12. You Would Do Anything For Her

Don’t tell me it’s not worth fightin’ for
I can’t help it, there’s nothin’ I want more
You know it’s true
Everything I do I do it for you

Bryan Adams has it right! There is nothing you wouldn’t do for her because she would do the same for you. You both know how important your relationship is to each other. And you both will cross the seven seas and battle mythical gods to fight for it! There isn’t much you wouldn’t do for each other because you both are forever.

13. Putting Each Other First

Despite what you want, you always put her needs first and she does the same for you. A compromise doesn’t feel like you are giving up on something – you instead feel you are making her happy, and that feeling makes you happy too. Putting her needs first doesn’t seem like you are sacrificing anything – and you know she feels the same about you.

14. You Both Are Vulnerable

You both share your deepest feelings, darkest secrets, and innermost fantasies with each other. You know there is no judgment with her. You are unabashedly yourself with her. You tell her that secret family history because she will be there for you. You open up to her with your sexual desires. No matter what, you can be open and vulnerable with her physically, emotionally, and mentally.

15. You Are Already Thinking Of A Lifetime

If you are already planning trips with her and going on other adventures, it means you want to build experiences that last a lifetime. It means you already know that she is the one for you.

Is She The One?

Books, movies, and songs will all have you believe that all we need in our lives is that one person – someone made specifically for us by the mystical gods above. But, in reality, the person who is made for you is someone you want to be with.

There may never be that soulmate made for you, but you will find a girl who moves you in all the right ways. You will fall in love and want to make it work with her. If she understands you, fights for you, loves you, protects you, and respects you, she clearly is the right one for you. She sure may annoy you at times, but she is the woman you love – and you want to spend the rest of your life with her.


If you are wondering if she is the one, chances are high that you are already serious about her. You want her to be the one. You have probably already thought about getting down on your knee and popping that question. You probably have already made plans to spend your life with her, forever. If you know she is the one, there is no reason for you to think twice. Take the first step today and let her know your feelings!

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As Chief Editor, Harini sets the tone and editorial direction for StyleCraze to deliver engaging, interesting, and authentic content revolving around women's health, wellness, and beauty. She has over 14 years of experience in content writing and editing for online media. She specializes in the areas of Beauty, Lifestyle, and Health & Wellness and is proficient in Medical Sciences (Biology, Human Anatomy and Physiology, and Biochemistry). Her background in Biomedical Engineering helps her decode and interpret the finer nuances of scientific research for her team. Harini is a certified bibliophile and a closet poet. She also loves dancing and traveling to offbeat destinations.