17 Practical Tips To Make Him Miss You Like Crazy

Use these fantastic tips to remain in your man's thoughts and make him long for you.

Reviewed by Joseph Moore, Certified Relationship And Life Coach
By Harini Natarajan, Certified Emotional Intelligence Practitioner

Love is a funny thing. You want a guy to miss you, but you are not sure how to get him to. You may look for tips to make him miss you, yearn for you, and send you a slew of texts conveying these feelings. However, few people understand how to make a man miss you when you are not present. The biggest problem with guys is that you don’t even have to try to make him miss you initially. However, as time goes on, those feelings of desiring, longing, and missing begin to fade.

If you think his feelings for you are waning, there are several things you can do to make him miss you. These guidelines apply to all guys. He could be your boyfriend, fiancé, or significant other. He may even be an ex with whom you’d like to reconnect (though we’ll be the one to tell you that this is a terrible move). Here’s how to make him miss you no matter what the situation. Keep reading!

Tips To Make Him Miss You

1. Reduce The Frequency Of Interactions

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We understand that when you do miss someone, the urge to text them is very real. You try to come up with texts that will make him want you or crave daily communication. In some cases, you may even want to be on an hourly communication basis with this person. Here’s some advice.

The best way to make a guy miss you is to pull away. Refrain from texting or calling him for the smallest things. If you reach out to him constantly, he does not have any chance to miss you. Instead, give your special person a reason and some time to miss you. When you cut back on contact, your Mr. Right will keep wondering whether you are really interested in him. This may be quite hard for you to do, but it works like a charm in making him miss you.

2. Don’t Throw A Tantrum

A little tantrum here and there can be endearing. He may find that slight nose twitch or bout of jealousy quite cute. But when it becomes nagging, things can go south between the two of you.

One of the best ways to make him miss you is not nagging him when he expects you to. Is he not taking your call? Okay. Do not create a scene about it. Basically, remain chill. This will make him crave the attention you usually give him and make him miss you.

3. Cut Down On The Duration Of The Conversation

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You had a good stint going. Every day, you would fall asleep while talking to him on the phone. Now, you can feel his attention fading away. Here is a trick up our alley to make your man miss you in such a situation – be the first one to finish a conversation.

Prioritize yourself instead of staying on the phone for hours until he decides to end the call. Do you have piling work? Get it done. Your close kin deserves your time too. Say “I am busy” or “Oh, my friends have come over” when the conversation gets too long. You can do this with texting as well. Be the first to send the ‘goodnight’ text and get a good night’s sleep when you have an early morning schedule. The aim here is to end the conversation while letting him know you are prioritizing yourself. It will feel abrupt to him as he is used to you keeping everything aside to make time for him. This will leave him aching for you. When a man misses a woman, he wants to keep talking to her.

4. Do Not Return His Calls And Texts Immediately

Yeah, we know Barney Stinson came up with this rule. But remember, there is a difference between giving him a healthy amount of attention and looking needy. The simplest trick is to ensure that you do not return calls or reply to his texts as soon as you get them. We recommend you send him texts that make him want you (maybe something a bit naughty?), but not like your life’s happiness depends on him.

Keep him waiting. Let him see that he is not the only priority in your life. Most men love a chase. But if you are right there waiting for him all the time, it sucks out all the excitement from the relationship for him.

5. Respect His Space

Guys are big on their space. If you really want to make him want you, respect his space. Have your space and let him have his. Your spaces can intersect and overlap but not infringe on each other. This will not only make him miss you but also show that you have a life outside of him. And if you ask us, this is just as empowering for you. Everybody needs their time and space to clear their minds.

6. Restrict The Usage Of Social Media

Social media is your friend as long as you use it within limits. It has so much potential for exploitation that you can completely go wrong with your plan of making him miss you and end up turning things against you.

When you want to make him miss you, a little bit of mystery is crucial. Even if you are an avid social media user, do not keep updating your status every hour. Post only the best pictures and space out when you post them.

Also, please go easy on the Facebook/BuzzFeed quizzes. Especially ones like “Who is your soulmate?” and “What will your kids look like?” It is okay to be aspirational, but making it look like those are all your priorities will scare him away.

Share pictures of you partying with your girls, and let him gawk. But if he keeps on updating, resist making conversation. That will just give him the impression that you are stalking him online.

7. Make Your Encounters Surprising And Fun

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Hey, there is no denying that a little bit of mystery is intriguing. If you want to make him miss you, don’t update him constantly on where you are or what you are doing. Then, surprise him with a little spontaneity. For instance, call him for a dinner date out of the blue. Or, forget the dinner and movie, and go for paintball instead. Making these fun memories will make him miss you and want to hang out with you anymore.

8. “Forget” Your Things At His Place

If you are going for a sleepover, try to leave your scarf or sunglasses behind. You can even leave a simple hair clip in his pocket! These little quirks really keep guys interested. Seeing your things often will surely make a man miss you.

But do not let him catch on to your trick. Don’t start doing this too often. Otherwise, he may just stop finding this whole thing cute and start thinking you are careless instead.

9. Spend Time With Your Friends

Most girls, when they get into a relationship, end up spending all their time with their partner. This can get quite frustrating for the man. When you really want to make him miss you, show him that you have a life independent of him and are not needy for his time and attention.

This is where Instagram comes in handy – update your stories when you go out with friends. If anything, it will make him respect you more because you are an independent woman.

10. Use Social Media To Highlight Your Life, But Subtly

Do not keep updating wherever you go just to let him know. Honestly, he will know that you are trying to seek his attention. Here are certain things you really should not do on social media:

  • Do not tag him in photos that he is not in.
  • Do not send him a Snap every 10 minutes to keep getting attention from him.
  • Do not text his friends to find out what he is doing.
  • Do not try to make him jealous by posting pictures with other guys.

11. Tell Him You Miss Him

We tend to get needy when we start expecting something from our partner, but we never verbally admit that we miss them. The very fact that you are looking for ways to find out how to make him miss you shows that he is somewhat used to you gawking and fawning all over him. Thus, he is taking you for granted.

Here is what you can do — mix things up a bit and treat him like a really good friend. Hold back the feelings that you get for him even though it may become difficult. Do not become rude. Simply be courteous and keep some physical distance between you two whenever you meet. Let him have his space but do let him know you miss him once in a while. Remind him of the fun things you did together before but not anymore. Communicate instead of giving the cold shoulder, hoping to send a message. This will make him reminisce about old times and yearn for them too.

12. Do Away With The Pretense

This is perhaps the most useful advice we can give you for life. Be genuine with your man. The more pretentious you are, the easier it is to catch your lies. If you really want someone to miss you, show them the real you.

When you want to make a man miss you, be yourself when you are with him. Be it binging on ice cream in the middle of the night or crying while watching a Meryl Streep movie, show him who you are. These little things will surely make him remember you. Let him see why you are unique and don’t just follow the herd.

13. Take Things Slow

We would also recommend you take things slow if you want to attract him. Don’t go all in – physically and emotionally – right from the first date. It is best to control the pace of the relationship. If you do not let him miss you at all, you will lose control of the entire situation. If things keep moving too fast, they may also end too soon.

14. Be Subtly Jealous

Hey, do not look completely disinterested. It is best to show some jealousy, but not go overboard. Ask subtly who that girl was, but don’t express your dismay regarding it.

He should not feel like you are trying to invade his life completely, but you are still not ignoring his actions completely. This will surely make him miss you a lot more.

15. Do Not Put All The Cards On The Table

Do not put all your cards on the table. Keep some aspects of your personality hidden. This keeps the excitement alive. It will also keep making him want you a lot more. When he knows he wants to get to know those hidden aspects, he will come back and surely miss you more.

16. Make Him Earn You Bit By Bit

This ties in with our previous point. Don’t go all in with this guy right from the first date. This includes not being totally vulnerable with him and making the space for him to be vulnerable with you.

The emotional labor you put into a relationship is valuable. Don’t dole it out freely, especially when the guy is not making an equal amount of effort in return. Make him earn you bit by bit by sharing just a little bit about you each time you guys meet. This will make him miss you and want you more.

17. Find A Scent That He Can Associate With You

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It is a well-known fact that humans strongly associate certain scents with specific memories. Use this to your advantage by wearing a particular perfume every time you meet him. If things go well, you can leave a shirt of yours at his place that he can sniff whenever he misses you. And miss you, he will.

Infographic – tips to make him miss you

While you are on a mission to make your bae miss you, the chances are that you would like to give him some space. You would not want to slide into his DM or meet him for lunch dates that much. Well, that sounds like a plan. But what would you do with all the time available while your mission takes its course? You cannot leave yourself with no activity to take part in. Otherwise, you will text or meet him. So, you will need to keep yourself busy.

Check our infographic below to see how you can keep yourself occupied meanwhile:

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What could be a better feeling than being wanted by someone you also crave for? Of course, you want your guy to miss you and always have you on their mind, but it is also a complicated pursuit like all other things in love. The above tips can help you stay in your man’s thoughts throughout the day and make him pine for you. For instance, making your encounters surprising can keep him on his toes, and taking things slow will make him wait in anticipation to see you again. Finally, give him space and let him initiate contact, and you will surely be the subject of his fancy in no time!

Key Takeaways

  • A guy may miss you initially, but as time goes by, their longing for you may reduce.
  • You can stop texting or calling him and give him a chance to miss you.
  • Respect his space and focus on doing your own thing by hanging out with your friends and living your life.
  • Take things slow and let him put effort into building the relationship with you.

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