Wedding Invitation Wording Examples And What To Include In It
A complete guide to help you organize a wedding invite without missing any crucial detail
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Invites are the first thing guests will see when they arrive at your special event. That is why it is crucial to ensure that the wedding invitation wording corresponds with the wedding style and reflects the heart of your relationship. It should symbolize you, your bond with your significant other, and the upcoming celebration. With the wording on your wedding invitation, you can put a lot of thought into the wedding vibe you wish to create. The wording also sets the tone of the event. For instance, how the invitation is worded reflects whether the wedding will be a formal black tie event or a more casual one. There are also certain other elements you cannot ignore, no matter how classic, traditional, or casual the words are.
Here are some examples of outstanding wedding invitation writing styles to help you make the right choice. Choose the wording that fits your taste and guest list. Scroll down to check them out.
In This Article
Common Wordings In Wedding Invitations
Whether you are planning a formal or an informal affair, there are plenty of great wording options to choose from for your wedding invitations. Here are some phrases you can consider and build on:
- “Would love for you to join them”
- “Invite you to celebrate with them”
- “At the marriage of their children”
- “The pleasure of your company”
- “Invite you to share in their love as they exchange vows”
- “Honor of your presence is requested at the marriage of”
- “Together with their parents you are cordially invited to celebrate the marriage”
- “_____ joyfully invite you to share in a celebration of love and commitment”
- “Please come help us celebrate our love”
- “Together with our families we joyfully invite you to the wedding of _____”
- “Invite you to witness the love and come party at the marriage”
- “_____ have the honor of announcing their marriage”
- “Please join as we tie the knot”
- “_____ would be honored to have you present when we exchange vows”
- “Request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their union”
- “You are cordially invited to attend the wedding of”
- “We invite you to share in our joy and request your presence at the wedding of”
- “With joyful hearts, _____ request your presence at their wedding”
- “We’re getting married, please join us”
- “_____invite you to an evening of drinks and dancing to celebrate their wedding!”
Quick TipTradition dictates that the bride’s name always precedes the groom’s. For same-sex couples, alphabetical order can be chosen.
To ensure that your wedding invitation turns out flawless, refer to the list of an invite’s components in the next section. Read on to not miss out any details.
What All To Include In An Invite
All wedding invitations should include the following key elements:
- A line to denote who is hosting the wedding (parents or the couple)
- A request line, inviting the guests to your wedding
- Full names of the couple
- Date and time of the ceremony
- Venue information
- Reception information
- Dress code
- RSVP deadline
- RSVP contact details
You can also add your guests’ names to make it clear whether they are allowed to bring company or children.
Quick TipFormal invitations come with a second card that details the reception. The words “and afterward at the reception” or “reception soon after” can be included on the wedding invitation itself.
Your wedding invite should also be customized according to the kind of ceremony you are planning — traditional, quirky, or private. Head to the next section for invitation specimens for formal, casual, and virtual weddings.
Sample Wedding Invitations
1. Formal Wedding Invitations
- Amelia Bell & Jake Bradley
Request the honor of your presence
On their wedding day
Saturday, the 11th of June, 2016
At half past six o’clock in the evening
The First Congregational Church of Wells
- We’re getting married!
Ben & Pilar
Please join us
10.11.2014
At 5:30 p.m.
Panorama Hills
- Sophia Anderson and Jaden Harper
Invite you to their wedding
September 14, 2024
Saturday at four o’clock
In the afternoon
Willow Creek Vineyard
Seattle, Washington
- The honor of your presence
Is requested at the marriage of
Jack Smith
To Kim Mason
Saturday, the seventeenth of May
Two thousand and twenty
At half past four in the afternoon
- The pleasure of your company is requested
At the marriage celebration of
Robin Johnson and John Smith
On Saturday, the eighteenth of July
Two thousand twenty-two
At four o’clock
Grace Fellowship Church
- Mr. and Mrs. Brian Rupert Briggs
Request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of
Ms. Tricia Anne to their son Mr. Ryan Chan Bennett
On Saturday, the ninth of November,
Two thousand and eighteen at two o’clock in the afternoon.
Notre Dame Catholic Cathedral
Miami, Florida.
- God has blessed us with
Love and friendship.
We, Sofia Smith and
James Ray,
Have chosen to begin our new
Life together on
Saturday, August 7, 2022
We joyously invite
You to witness as we exchange marriage vows
And celebrate with us
At 11 o’clock in the morning
Christ Chapel of the Valley
Los Angeles
2. Casual Wedding Invitations
- We’re getting married!
Ben & Pilar
Please join us
10.11.2014
at 5:30 p.m.
Panorama Hills
- Together with their families
Kendall Robinson and Tatum White
Invite you to celebrate their wedding
Aug 23, 2022
4 o’ clock in the evening
Fernbank Museum of Natural History
Augustana, Georgia
- Talia Flores and Stephen Byrne
Invite you to a celebration of their
Love and commitment
June 10, 2017
12:00 pm
Arctic Club Hotel
Seattle, Washington
- Ann & Thomas
Are tying the knot!
You are happily invited to
Join us in celebration of their marriage
Saturday the twelfth of September 2020
4 o’clock in the afternoon
Crater Lake Lodge
- With great pleasure
Mrs. & Mr. Biel and Mrs. & Mr. Timberlake
Invite you to celebrate the
Marriage of their children
Jessica and Justin
October 19, 2012
At four o’clock in the afternoon
Borgo Egnazia Resort
- Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Maria Smith to Jade Collins
When they ask God’s blessing on their union
And His presence in their new life together.
- Please share in our joy at
The marriage of our daughter
Tricia Anne Briggs to Ryan Chan Bennett
November 09, 2022, at four o’clock.
The Grand Oak Cafe
Manitoba, Winnipeg
Dinner and dancing to follow
3. Invitation To Attend Virtually
- With an abundance of caution
And care for our guests,
We have decided to marry
In a small intimate ceremony.
We sincerely appreciate your
Love and support, and
Would love if you could
Join us virtually instead
As we say ‘I do’.
- In light of the current health restrictions,
Our wedding is sadly smaller than intended.
We have limited number of seats,
And we saved one for you.
Hope you can join us as
We celebrate our wedding day.
Please reply by 3rd of September
To let us know if you can still attend.
- Alexa and John joyfully announce their marriage,
December 26, 2020
Due to restrictions on gathering sizes,
We are unable to celebrate with you in person.
Please know that your presence
Will be sincerely missed
And we hope that you will be able to
Celebrate with us from afar.
- In a private ceremony,
A new love is being celebrated.
Alexandrea Jack and Jacob Mason
Are tying a knot in
The presence of their close circle.
We would love for your blessings and wishes!
- There’s been a change of plan!
Citing the current economic crisis,
We can’t share this day with you in person.
Please join us virtually through Zoom
To celebrate our special day.
See our website for access details.
- Our love can’t be canceled!
We are not stopping and have decided
To move the party to zoom.
We request that you join us
In celebrating this day.
We can’t wait to meet you
All at a huge celebration when this is over.
Visit our website for details of admission.
4. To Intimate About Postponement
- During this challenging
And unprecedented time,
We regret to inform you that
Carly and Frederick’s wedding
Has been postponed.
We will keep you updated
When more information is available.
The Campbell and Monterey families
5. Modern Wedding Invitations
- Love blossoms!
Join us as Emma Anderson and Ethan Turner
take the plunge on Saturday, October 15, 2024,
at 4 o’clock in the afternoon at Celestial Gardens.
Your presence will make our day even brighter!
- Save the date!
Olivia Miller and Liam Thompson are saying ‘I do’
on Friday, November 18, 2024, at 6:30 p.m.
Join the celebration of love at Starlit Manor. - You’re invited!
Harper Davis and Mason Clark are ready to say their vows,
on Sunday, December 5, 2022, at 2 o’clock in the afternoon.
Be a part of our joy at Riverside Terrace.
- Mark your calendars!
Celebrate with Lily Parker and Oliver Hayes
as they tie the knot on Wednesday, September 7, 2022,
at 5:45 p.m. at Crystal Cove.
Your presence means the world to us!
Infographic: Why Wedding Invitations Are Still Relevant
You may wonder if it is worth spending money on personalized invitations in a world where phone calls and broadcast texts are commonplace. But do note that wedding invitations are not just pretty souvenirs. They are essential for the statement they make, and they are relevant even today. Check out the infographic below to understand why.
Illustration: StyleCraze Design Team
Planning a wedding involves multiple preparations at every level. Along with the venue, decor, food, and attire, the invitation sets the tone for the wedding. The wording of your wedding invitation should be framed in a way that makes your guests feel welcome to participate in your joyous celebrations. With the samples above, you can get a fair idea of what your invitation should sound like. Make it warm and endearing to make sure your friends, family, and relatives feel happy to be a part of your big day!
Frequently Asked Questions
How far in advance should I send out my wedding invitations?
Sending out your wedding invitations 8-10 weeks in advance will give your guests enough time to plan their travel and schedule. Master and certified wedding planner JoAnn Moore says, “I recommend 3 months in advance. Many guests forget to return the RSVP card and most venues require 30 days out from the event for the final guest count. This will allow time to contact the guests who have not returned their RSVP card.”
Do you have to put Mr. and Mrs. on wedding invitations?
Adding titles to an invitation makes the invitation more formal. However, there is no compulsion to do so. You may go with what you think your guests might prefer or like.
Can you list multiple venues on your wedding invitation?
Multiple venues and wedding-related events on a single invite may make things confusing. You may also want to restrict the number of guests for certain events, in which case, listing them all on a single invitation would not be the smart thing to do. However, if you are keeping the guestlist constant throughout your events, you may list them out in one invitation.
Key Takeaways
- Wedding invitation wording should authentically reflect you as a couple, capturing the essence of your bond.
- The wording of your invitation sets the tone for the event, indicating whether one can expect a formal affair or a more relaxed gathering. This helps guests better prepare for it.
- Personalize the wording in your wedding invitation to suit your style. Ensure essential details such as date, time, and location are clearly stated.
Image: Stable Diffusion/StyleCraze Design Team
Learn how to craft the perfect wedding invitation. Check this video for helpful tips to choose the perfect words and to make your special day extremely memorable.
