97 “Would You Rather” Questions For Couples – Funny & Flirty

Get to know each other on a deeper and more intimate level with these hilarious questions.

Reviewed by Dr. Ruupa Rao Dr. Ruupa Rao, Life Coach & Psychologist
By Sneha Tete Sneha Tete • May 10, 2023

97 “Would You Rather” Questions For Couples – Funny & Flirty

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Asking questions is a mature way to get to know your partner. But who says you can’t have fun with it! That is why asking would you rather questions for couples is such a big hit among those in relationships. Not only do you get to ask the serious questions, but you can also get silly, quirky, naughty, and romantic with them! It also helps if you’ve come to a stage in your relationship where you feel like you know everything about your partner.

You could also use this question game to drop hints about what you’d like for your next gift – “Would you rather take me to Paris and make my day, or take me to the beach for a stroll?”. And, in turn, learn what they would like to receive. This game opens a world of possibilities and adds a touch of excitement for couples who thought their relationship was stale or boring. You can now spice up your partnership. To get you started, we’ve added some suggestions. Get funny, romantic, and lustful with these “would you rather” questions listed below!

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“Would You Rather” Conversation Starter Questions For Couples

Would you rather be in a bad relationship for the rest of your life or have no relationship for the rest of your life?

Would you rather stay in or go out for a date?

Would you rather wear comfortable clothes or fashionable clothes?

Would you rather spend $5,000 on traveling or on a physical item like a TV?

Would you rather work a morally questionable job that pays a lot of money or a job that helps a lot of people but doesn’t pay much?

Would you rather be waited on hand and foot by a jealous SO or wait hand and foot on a trusting SO?

Would you rather lose all of your money and valuables or all of the photos you have ever taken?

Would you rather go to jail for 4 years for something you didn’t do or get away with something horrible you did but always live in fear of getting caught?

Would you rather die in 20 years with no regrets or die in 50 years with many regrets?

Would you rather have unlimited sushi for life or unlimited tacos for life?

Would you rather be unable to use search engines or unable to use social media?

Would you rather give up showering for a month or give up the internet for a month?

Would you rather never use social media sites/apps again or never watch another movie or TV show?

Would you rather be the first person to explore a planet or be the inventor of a drug that cures a deadly disease?

Would you rather find your true love or a suitcase with a million dollars inside?

Would you rather be able to teleport anywhere or be able to read minds?

Would You Rather questions for couples make for great ice breakers

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Would you rather know when you are going to die or how you are going to die?

Would you rather lose all of your memories from birth to now or lose your ability to make new memories?

Would you rather be infamous in history books or be forgotten after your death?

Would you rather never be able to eat meat or never be able to eat vegetables?

Would you rather be an amazing artist or a brilliant mathematician?

Would you rather be held in high regard by your parents or your friends?

Would you rather be able to go to any theme park in the world for free for the rest of your life or eat for free at any drive-through restaurant for the rest of your life?

Would you rather lose the ability to read or lose the ability to speak?

Would you rather be happy and content but not achieve much or achieve a lot but never be satisfied?

Would you rather make the first move or have someone make a move on you?

Would you rather wake up early and spend time with your partner or get up late and enjoy your day alone?

Would you rather date a confident person or a shy person?

Would you rather sacrifice your ethics to earn more money or sacrifice money for your ethics?

Would you rather meet someone on a dating app or be set up by your friends?

Funny “Would You Rather” Questions

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Would you rather be able to control animals (but not humans) with your mind or control electronics with your mind?

Would you rather have a golden voice or a silver tongue?

Would you rather be balding but fit or overweight but with a full head of hair?

Would you rather be attractive but stupid or intelligent but ugly?

Would you rather see what was behind every closed door or be able to crack into any safe?

Would you rather know the history of every object you touched or be able to talk to animals?

Would you rather be a reverse centaur or a reverse mermaid/merman?

Would you rather have a clown only you can see that follows you everywhere and just stands silently in a corner watching you without doing or saying anything or have a real-life stalker who dresses like the easter bunny that everyone can see?

Would you rather have everyone laugh at your jokes but not find anyone else’s jokes funny yourself or have no one laugh at your jokes but you still find other people’s jokes funny?

Would you rather have free wi-fi wherever you go or be able to drink unlimited free coffee at any coffee shop?

Would you rather be forced to dance every time you hear music or be forced to sing along to any song you hear?

Would you rather wake up as a new random person every year and have full control of them for the whole year or spend a day once a week inside a stranger without having any control of them?

Would you rather have everything on your phone right now (browsing history, photos, etc.) made public to anyone who googles your name or never use a cell phone again?

Would you rather never get a paper cut again or never get something stuck in your eye again?

Would you rather randomly time travel +/- 20 years every time you fart or teleport to a different place on Earth every time you sneeze?

Flirty “Would You Rather” Questions

A flirty Would You Rather question can get a couple in a naughty mood

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Would you rather kiss on the first date or wait until you get to know them better?

Would you rather order take-out or go to a fancy restaurant?

Would you rather get hugs from the back or get hugs from the front?

Would you rather write a love letter or get a love letter?

Would you rather dress up for date nights or just Netflix and chill in sweats?

Would you rather blow a kiss at your SO from across the room or wink at your SO from across the room?

Would you rather cook for your SO or have your SO cook for you?

Would you rather pass notes to your SO or text your SO?

Would you rather get up early or stay up late?

Would you rather be snowed in with your crush or lay on the beach with your crush?

Would you rather hit on someone much older than you or have someone much older hit on you?

Would you rather go watch a movie or go watch the sunset?

Would you rather find true love or be rich?

Would you rather kiss me in public or kiss me in private?

Would you rather dress up for a night on the town or stay home in sweats?

Would you rather eat the food prepared by your mom or your SO?

Would you rather let your spouse date your best friend or your arch-enemy if you die?

Would you rather give up goodnight kisses or morning snuggles?

Quick Tip

These questions are great for setting a romantic mood. Play “would you rather” during dinner or as foreplay before bed to spice things up.

Flirty Yet Funny “Would You Rather” Questions

You can make your Would You Rather questions flirty yet funny

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Would you rather be rich and unattractive or poor and good-looking?

You’re on a deserted island when you come across a half-human creature – would you rather they are top-half fish or bottom-half fish?

Would you rather have really weird dreams every single night or never have dreams again?

Would you rather wrestle in a pool of jello or chocolate pudding?

Would you rather be with a jealous but hardworking girlfriend or a lazy but trusting girlfriend?

Would you rather have a partner who is shy or one who makes you feel shy?

Would you rather go jogging together or go to the gym together?

Fun “Would You Rather” Questions

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Would you rather have a partner that always looks nice or that always smells nice?

Would you rather wear your significant other’s underwear or go out with no underwear?

Would you rather have a house cleaner or a personal chef?

Would you rather have a partner with a really squeaky voice or a really deep voice?

Would you rather go to a water park or a mystery room on a first date?

Would you rather cuddle for five minutes or cuddle for five hours?

Would you rather have a partner who talks to their dog or who “listens” to their dog talk?

Would you rather have a partner who sings in the shower or while on the toilet seat?

Would you rather be the manager of a store with bad employees or be one of the bad employees?

Would you rather your partner was always overdressed or always underdressed?

Would you rather be with someone with smelly feet or smelly hands?

Would you rather burp or fart in a crowded room?

Would you rather be the strongest or the fastest person in the world?

Would you rather be with someone who laughs really loudly or someone who laughs really weirdly?

Would you rather sit on a beach for a week or go on an outbound-type adventure vacation?

Clean “Would You Rather” Questions

Would you rather know what time it is without a clock or always know exactly where you are without a map?

Would you rather go a year without television or a week without seeing or talking to your partner?

Would you rather spend hours talking to your partner on the phone or over text?

Random “Would You Rather” Questions

Would you rather fart bubbles or sneeze glitter?

Would you rather win a million-dollar jackpot or never have to pay rent ever again?

Would you rather find your true love or never have to work a day in your life again?

Would you rather eat only dog food for a day or stand barefoot in a pile of dog poop for an hour?

Would you rather know all about the history of the universe or everything that is going to happen in the future?

Would you rather suddenly be elected a senator or suddenly become the CEO of a major company?

Would you rather eat sweets or pizza for the rest of your life?

Would you rather spend the rest of your life in Antarctica or the Sahara Desert?

Would you rather not be able to open any closed doors (locked or unlocked) or not be able to close any open doors?

Quick Tip

You can keep a time limit to keep it more exciting. If your partner takes too long, you can ask them to answer three questions in quick succession.

Infographic: Top 10 “Would You Rather” Questions To Know Your Partner Better

Be it a long-term relationship or just a few months of dating, the “would you rather” game can bring fun and excitement to the relationship. While we have a pool of questions to help you start a conversation with your partner, a few can help you learn more about their quirks! Check out our top picks in the infographic below.

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When you are not in the mood for a serious discussion but still want to get to know the person you are dating a little better, the ’Would You Rather’ questions can be just the thing for you. They keep things light as the respondent has to choose an option from the provided choices. However, these questions also add fun, excitement, and flirtation to your time together. For instance, the question ’Would you rather be rich and unattractive or poor and good-looking?’ can give you insight into your partner’s mind.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are there any “Would You Rather” questions that should be avoided in a relationship?

Yes, avoid asking questions about sensitive issues, questions that put your partner in a difficult situation or make them feel ill-at-ease, and questions that compare them to others.

Can “Would You Rather” questions be used as a way to challenge or test a relationship?

Yes, “Would You Rather” questions can be used to test or challenge a relationship, but it’s crucial to use caution and extreme care. While asking your partner these kinds of questions can be a perfect way to get to know them better, if they are not asked correctly, they can also lead to clashes or even conflict.

Key Takeaways

A game of Q&A, when done right, is a fun playful way to know your partner better.
You can get to know about their likes, dislikes, preferences and opinions, in a fun jovial way.
Asking important questions and understanding your partner’s stance on them may help build and strengthen the foundation of your relationship.

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