You’ve probably come across a lot of attractive women and thought, “Man, how does she do it?”. Well, we’re here to tell you exactly how. Being attractive isn’t just about the way you look. It has everything to do with the way you carry yourself and project yourself to the rest of the world. You might be the most beautiful woman in the world but you won’t be considered attractive or approachable if you don’t have a smile on your face. So without further ado, here is a list of 11 personality traits that make a woman irresistible to not just men but everyone around them:
1. A Witty Sense Of Humor
Everyone loves someone with a good sense of humor. This is a personality trait that is admired in both men and women. A woman with a witty sense of humor knows exactly how to keep everyone on their toes. It also means she can roll with the punches and take things lightly. You don’t have to worry about this girl taking offense to a joke against her.
2. She’s Honest And Upfront
Everybody makes mistakes and most men would feel comfortable around a woman who doesn’t hold their mistakes against them. Men also want their partners to be honest and upfront with them about their expectations, dreams, and ambitions. Nobody wants to be in the presence of someone who constantly lies and hurts them.
Most people pay attention to the way someone treats others; for example, those in the service industry. If you’re rude to your waiter or you spend most of your time bad-mouthing those around you, it’s an instant turn off. If you’re the type of person who is rude to his friends or keeps pressuring him not to hang out with them, he will probably look for the exit sign the first chance he gets.
Contrary to popular belief, most men do find intelligent women attractive. And those who feel intimidated by your intelligence aren’t worth your time anyway. Being intelligent doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be book smart. It has everything to do with your emotional intelligence, street smartness and sense of humor.
“What’s wrong with being confident?”. Demi Lovato got it right when she dropped her hit song in 2015. There is nothing that makes someone more attractive than their sense of confidence. Women who constantly need reassurance bore men and often drive them towards the door. Men love women who are completely themselves and don’t fake it for attention.
6. Expresses Herself
A woman who speaks her mind is super irresistible. She isn’t afraid to voice out her opinions when she feels something isn’t right. This doesn’t have to mean that she expresses everything that comes to her mind like verbal diarrhea, but more so that she expresses herself in a healthy manner.
7. She’s Independent
Women who are strong and independent don’t need a man, they want a man. Men are attracted to women who know exactly what they want from life. Women who are powerful and not afraid to show it off. Men find independent women irresistible because they see them as a challenge. An independent woman isn’t just going to settle for a regular Joe. She wants the best because she knows she deserves it.
8. She’s Down To Earth
Men are attracted to women who are humble and grounded and who don’t waste all their time chasing after materialistic aspirations. Of course, this doesn’t mean that they shouldn’t aspire to be rich and successful, but it shouldn’t be their only goal in life.
9. She’s Optimistic And Positive
Let’s be real, nobody likes a Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy. People like surrounding themselves with positive people and so it’s understandable that a man too, would want to be around a positive woman who uplifts him and is his source of comfort when he’s down.
10. She’s Creative And Free-Spirited
Men love women who can step outside the box and offer their own perspective on things. Men are attracted to women who are a little weird or have hobbies that they love and are attached to. They want women who stand out in a crowd and aren’t afraid to be different from the norm.
11. Driven And Ambitious
Any man will fall prey to a woman who is driven and ambitious. Women who have goals and ambitions in life will not make having a man the biggest priority in their life and will aspire to make a name for themselves. Basically, they won’t bombard their partners constantly when they’re bored because chances are, they won’t find the time to be bored.
In the end, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what some men might perceive as beautiful would not be considered beautiful to another. What are your thoughts on this list? Do you agree with this list? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below.