6 Signs He Loves The Way You Kiss Him
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Kissing is probably one of the most important aspects of a relationship. The depth and duration can be an important marker of your relationship and tell you how well it is going on. Well, are you worried if you are doing a good enough job? Ask your man. He is going to probably give you a pretty optimistic response. However, there is a lot to read between the lines. And, for some weird reason, there are plenty of posts out there to judge your guy based on pointless crap—signs that he is immature, what is he doing to cheat and that is only the tip of the iceberg. On a bigger picture, the man’s likes and dislikes are pretty much taken for granted when it comes to conversations, attire, kissing and making love. Well, back on point, does your man like how you kiss?
Not sure? Well, we bring to a list of signs that will tell you whether you are a good kisser or is he just being nice. Read on.
#1 – He Is Surprised With How Amazing You Are That He Says it
Alright. Thumb rule. Men will never lie about kissing. They will just stay mum and pass you a compliment when you do ask. If he is going to lose control of himself and ends a kiss by saying that you are a really good kisser, know that he is really enjoying it. That chances are bright that he is surprised by how well you kiss. Reason being that many women do not take into consideration what kind of kiss their men like.
#2 – He Slows Down The Pre-Love Making Teasing And Focuses On Kissing
It is true. Not all men want to dive right into action-mode. Many of them really enjoy the idea of kissing to create a close intimate connection with their partner. With the concept of kissing well explored, what follows is a lot better and intense. If your guy is constantly moving away from the kiss and focusing on other parts, he is either selfish in his approach, or he is not really enjoying your kiss. This is usually referred to as tolerate kissing.
Men ideally want to engage and please and being a good kisser is a good incentive for them to get better. So, work on your technique and you will see his attention shift.
#3 – He Makes Eye Contact Before And After Kissing
Eyes are the portal to the heart. If you man does the deep eye gazing before and after kissing, it is a sign that you have reached his soul. Well, truth be told, men usually give a glance before and after, but you will know from his look that is a lot deeper than usual. A look that will find you melting away. His smile, eyes and facial expressions are to look out for. If you are doing really good, he may even open your eyes to see him looking at you all along.
It is all in the eyes.
#4 – He Starts To Reflect Your Energy
We have seen this is in several movies that a person interested in you will copy your actions and movements. This goes to a deeper level if you are a good kisser. Your man will actually start to take in your energy and replicate it. That is considered a non-verbal mode of communication and it shows how much he respects, admires and loves you. If your man lands up imitating your gestures, posture, and movement, it could be the best compliment yet.
He is really liking your kisses.
#5 – He Kisses Passionately, Repeatedly And For a Long Time
If there are just pecks and very short kisses that end abruptly, he is trying to be nice by playing along but not really enjoying it. If he is going on for a long time, he is really putting in an effort. If you are good at what you are doing, chances are he will start to follow your lead as well. That means you are on top of your game and doing a really good job. If he takes it slow and works his way up, he is definitely enjoying the process to the fullest.
#6 – He Goes All Over The Face
If your man is doing this a lot, then the chances are high that he is exploring other parts of you. Men usually try to look for a connection and an emotion. So, if he is not going past your lips, then he is not really feeling it. If he crossed that boundary, he is feeling and expressing his passion. If he is showing you what he can do, it means he loves the way you kiss and wants to give his best version to you.
So, that is a few signs to tell if your guy is enjoying the way you kiss or is he just ‘tolerate kissing’. Look out for these and if he isn’t feeling it, it is time to get your game. Share your thoughts in the comment section below.
