7 Common Ways That Girls Sabotage Their Marriages
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In the present world, we all are aware that women are capable of doing great things in life. Society has kept evolving and changing its beliefs about the female gender as well. In earlier times, it was the men who felt responsible for everything; they earned the bread for the family, they decided the growth and future of the family. Basically, what we’re trying to say is that it was the men who always called the shots. They were the ones who always steered the wheel of the relationship and the success or failure of marriage also depended greatly on how men wanted it to be.
Talking about the present times now, there’s no denying that both men and women have an equal share in the sustenance of a relationship. And as much as women can now earn the bread and make a family an ideal and successful one; they are also capable of wrecking their marriage boats. There are times when women don’t even realize that they are sabotaging their own relationships.
They are so blind that they stick to what they see or understand and often turn blind to the truth of the situation. What women don’t understand is that doing this consistently can end their happy married life. Dear women out here, if you ever feel guilty for your actions, or do any of the below-mentioned things, then maybe its time for you to stop doing it before it gets too late. Read and be wary dear women.
1. Women Withhold Their Intimacy And Affection
Just as much as you expect a man to give in all to care and love you, dear women, even you must learn to not control your emotions especially in the case of showing love and affection to the man of your life. Love unconditionally in a way that your man must never feel the need to ask you for the care or affection.
2. Women Expect A Lot From Relationships
Yes, expectations do form a part and parcel of relationship but it doesn’t mean that you need to set it to a level that you get disappointed. One must need to learn to manage expectations concerning a relationship. Because doing this can lead to two things ladies; one, you might get disappointed to a level that you’d turn stone-hearted towards the man you love. And two, letting your man know time and again that he’s disappointed you will make him feel worthless.
3. Women Are Careless With Their Words
Always remember that words matter. Never let yourself believe in the otherwise of this. Be wary of the words you choose to express your angst, as much as words can hurt you; it can hurt your man as well. Plus, you never know, your man might be smart enough to use your statements against you shortly as well.
4. Women Never Appreciate The Small Gestures From Their Man
Efforts are lovely no matter how big or small they appear. Whenever your man shows some kind or lovable gestures, appreciate him for he will feel more connected to you. If you taunt him or laugh over his efforts, he might feel pressured or might start thinking that you deserve a better guy than him.
5. Women Can Sometimes Be Very Disrespectful Towards Their SO
If you want to be respected in a relationship, it’s your duty to give respect to your significant other as well. This applies especially when the two of you are out at a family gathering or meeting friends for some fun. Being disrespectful towards your partner in front of others is like humiliating not just him but your relationship as well.
6. Women Stop Men From Pursuing Their Passion
When doing certain things can keep you happy, it applies to your man as well. Just like you, even your man has ambitions and passions that he would want to pursue for the rest of his life. And if you are doing anything opposite to that, you are posing yourself as a hurdle to him. And this puts your relationship at the risk of snapping.
7. Woman Cannot Stop Nagging
Encouraging yourself to nag around your partner is the worst thing you could do to him, to yourself, and your relationship. Nagging all the time can create a negative environment that your partner will certainly not appreciate being a part of. It will create noise between the two of you.
Most of the time we think that women are the victims of a bad relationship. But hey, even men have feelings and they can get hurt too. A relationship is a balance between two individuals, therefore, it’s vital to love and respect one and another to make your relationship a long-lasting one. Don’t you agree? Let us know what you think about this in the comments below.
