Real Men Reveal What Turns Them On The Most
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While a lot of men out there continue to rant that it’s impossible to understand a woman. In this era, the actual scenario is that it’s the men who have become more complex and difficult to comprehend these days (courtesy: less-expressive mortals). Because they don’t really open up about their likes and dislikes, women are often left wondering what to do, especially when it comes to turning their men on.
Yes, there are quite a lot of ways to turn a guy on, and it’s not just about sending some naughty texts (though that’s always a winner). We spoke to some guys about what turns them on the most and you’ll be surprised to know that it’s the little things that leave a larger impact on them — a smile, flirty banter, or even a wink.
And when it comes to making love, we figured that it’s the anticipation that forms the biggest part of the game. We know this because every guy we talked to somehow brought up this element. So, whether it is a touch, a nibble, a gaze, or glances of what’s in store, all these turn men on.
To make things more understandable and easier for you, we’ve put together a helpful article that will help you get your man turned on like crazy. And yes, they are men-approved! So, read on.
Men Love The Visual Treats!
If there’s one way you can make your man go ga-ga over you is by seducing him in a visual manner. Men love it the most, and this is what they had to say about it:
“When women do that hip wiggle while taking off their pants? That just makes me go nuts.”
“I cannot keep to myself when I see my girl wear one of my shirts as a dress. She looks like she is mine already!”
“I love the “just out of shower” look and the “just out of bed look.” The messy hair, no bra, no pants, no makeup, just a big oversized t-shirt. My SO is already aware of this and when she combines all of this together, what follows is some great action (wink-wink).”
See, you can tease your man visually and they’re bound to get turned on. Try finding out what avatar your man loves you in, go get yourself dressed in that and tease him for a night of promised fun and frolic.
Men Love It When Women Take Charge
Men absolutely love it when women make the first move. Sexuality and confidence is something that goes hand in hand. And if a woman has confidence in her sexuality, then it’s another level of madness for a man to fall in love with. This is what men had to say about women making the first move and turning them on:
“When she runs her hand through my hair, grabs it and kisses me. I simply cannot resist that!”
“Okay, I might sound a bit clichéd right now, but I love cuddling. Spooning turns me on like crazy. It’s like a good sensuous cuddle that just gets my motor running.”
“I love it when my girlfriend walks in randomly and says, ‘Let’s do it now.’ It gives me an instant kick.”
Men Love A Little Bit Of Kink
While women might feel shy about being bold and kinky, there are quite a majority of men out there who absolutely love some kink play to get in the mood. Here’s what men had to say about this:
“That seductive voice, oh my, it’s just so pleasant to my ears and even more to my brains. It’s a tease that can never fail.”
“I love the feeling of being wanted. When my girlfriend tries to coax me into feeling her everywhere, I just feel super good about that. Makes me feel like she needs me to feel that way.”
“When she moans, there’s nothing that would stop me from making her feel satisfied. It’s always a great night for us after that.”
Men Love Random Naughty Messages
This can never fail women! Men love being messaged about it, just as much they love talking about it. Message them about what was the best thing about the last time that you made love. Tell him which position is best for both of you and that you want to try it tonight. Men get turned on by that, at least, that’s what they say, have a look.
“When I get a random message from her while I’m working where she’s asking me to get some strawberries, I get the hint. And I’m turned on.”
“She messaged me once while I was out. Her text read, “Kinky play in store tonight for you.” In the next ten minutes, I was at the door of our house, feeling very energetic for what was going to happen.”
See, getting your man in the mood doesn’t have to be difficult or complicated. You just need to know what he loves best and you need to be confident doing it. Be adventurous with your love, it will always keep the fire ignited between the two of you. Do you know of any other ways that get men turned on in a jiffy? Let us know in the comments section below.
